I have been dating my current girlfriend for about 6 months now, and she is probably the coolest, most beautiful, and playful person I have met. The sex is great, but the only thing we lack is oral. We try, however, we have some problems. First, she uses her teeth a little too much. Being as she was the first girl to ever give me a blow job, I had no idea what to expect, but I never expected a lot of teeth. She asked me about it, and I did tell her the truth, which she seemed ok with. But still, the problem persists. With me, again, I have no idea what the hell I am doing. I've never gone down on a woman, so I don't know what to do to please. So firstly, is there a way I can show my girlfriend how to not use the teeth as much? And secondly, what do women like as far as oral for them goes?
Teeth are out for guys - no teeth! Tell (ask) her to open her mouth in an O shape with her lips covering her teeth. (This is quite hard to describe without being able to demonstrate!) and then bob up and down your dick using her tongue on your sensitive areas like the glans, the head, deep throating feels good doesn't it? Ask her to play with your balls while she is sucking you. And the old trick of sucking on an icecube before she goes down on you is nice apparently. As for going down on her, well each girl is different but I like the tongue going in deep, him using some fingers too, rythmically. Playing his tongue over my clit, sliding his tongue up and down my slit, alteratively sliding and licking and pushing his tongue into me. Umm, what else? Kissing me, tonguing etc. Again, hard to describe on email! Good luck!
When eating pussy don't spend all of your time licking the clit. It will become overstimulated and nothing will happen. Tease that little clitty by licking it for a few minutes, backing off, finding another area to lick and probe. Get two fingers in her curled up towards the bone and flex the fingers...
Jimmeh - tell her when she is hurting you with her teeth, and get her to curve her lips over them, or open her jaws wide and bring the lips to a narrow "O". Regarding going down on her, the thing to remember re her clitoris is to be really soft and gentle. Try using a feather on it. The clitoris has a little hood over it, like a foreskin, and is often too tender to touch directly, with your finger or tongue. Ask her. It is best to gently stroke each side of the clitoris inside the inner labia, and go across it with the hood covering it. When she is aroused, her clitoris swells and hardens like your penis. You can feel it. Re using your fingers inside the vagina, that is called G Spot stimulation, and it takes a lot of practice and communication to be successful. PM me if you want more information about how to use your "magic fingers" on her G Spot. Each female is different - talk to her about what she likes.
Thanks everybody. She is pretty open about things like this, so I don't think I would offend her telling your advice. Thanks for the tips for me, too. Always gotta improve my game .
