Me 21 and my gf of 2 years 21 also, have a great sex life, we'd try anything but no matter what i do she never comes? She says it feels great and loves having sex, and we really do have a wild time but still she never comes, any advice please?
Yea finger her and only recently started going down on her but she never cums, i think she's not letting herself? not relaxing enough?
Maybe, or you suck but that is okay! Since you only started going down on her it is expected it will take longer than usual. The key is to build up that strong jaw and tongue, that is, the ability to keep munching without your mouth locking up. Ask your gal what she likes! Can she bring herself off? If she can WATCH your lady pleasure herself. Learn the tricks of the trade! Ask questions and good luck to you:cheers2:
Only about 25-30% of women can have orgasms from intercourse alone, another 25% from intercourse and clitoral massage together, another 25% only from clitoral massage, and the remaining 20% or so never or seldom orgasm. So it may not be your fault - but keep trying. Try to give her a G Spot orgasm - check out my post in the "G Spot" thread.
tell her to rub herself while your pumping away, thats what works for us... shit pull out a toy if you have to... when a girls gettin off you get off. its intensely hott to us to watch em quiver and speak in tongues.
Speed up man. Just speed up !! Whatever you use at the moment (finger, tongue or cock) just speed up and focus on her clit and her g-spot altogether That will do the trick
If it doesn't bother her, then why are you concerned? Some women are physically incapable of orgasm, and as Cutted pointed out not all women orgasm, or need extra stimulation. If you have a satisfying sex life don't screw it up by focusing on the big "O". Enjoy it! It is also possible that she does not have intense orgasms, so she may not realize she is having them. When people think about what an orgasm is, they usually envision sparks flying, arched back, or screams of passion. Some orgasms are like a warm wave washing over the body, leaving the person feeling serene. Basically, if it ain't broke don't fix it. Oh, and never measure your own sexual worth by whether or not your partner has an orgasm. It will leave you wide open for disappointment.
