On a regular basis the "little one" does good. for the most part it gets hard way easy. but for some strange ass reason, right before she goes to give me head...it goes down.. Is this comon and how do i stop this from happening?? shes scared that i dont like her when i really do. i think im just nervous, but now that this has happened two times in a row. im nervous about being nervous and now i cant get un nervous........ ANY help would me very much appreciated by the gf and i. THANKS!
Sounds like "performance anxiety" - a common problem that all of us guys have faced at some point. Do you have problems with intercourse? Has your only sexual experience until now been masturbation? If so, you may have a little uneasiness having "real sex". PM me if you want some personal advice.
maybe it has a inferiority complex from you callin it "the little one" and when it knows someone is looking at it it tries to hide????
thanks guys this kinda helps. i have had sex before and usually have an easy time not being nervous but now that i have a gf, its like the nervs are insanely high... ne techniques or anything i can do to help it out??
Yes, classic performance anxiety as Cutted said. Also, since there is no age ref we don't know if you are very young or middle age. I've seen more erections wilt in mid action after my mid forties. What helps is to have an understanding, mature woman who doesn't put more anxiety on you. It happens - we'll fuck later. (Also, if you have fingers and a tongue - use them) Whereas a teen can usually get it up anytime anywhere, as you age you have to be working optimally (not drunk, not tired, not stressed) Stress of not being able to do it will likely make you not be able to do it. So, all I can offer is that you explain this openly to your GF. Let her know that if you wilt on her there will be other times and it is not the fault of her not turning you on, or your fault but something that happens from time to time.
Make sure you have a private, romantic setting, and that you are relaxed with a drink or two or some weed (not too much). Take a long time for foreplay, especially on "the little one". Make sure you (or your condom) are well lubricated. And don't think about losing your erection as you begin intercourse - think about her vagina, how you will feel ejaculating, etc.
Stay aroused throughout the session by touching her everywhere.. Just be comfortable with what she's doing it to you and enjoy the moment.
