guy unable to cum during sex usuallly...?

Hi there,
my man and I have amazing sex.. I've never felt such a connection and felt so uninhibited with him.. We had sex the other night and he came VERY hard... the thing is he says he never cums during sex.. - well, he does with ME!
I really like this guy.. could it be that our level of trust is such that he's relaxed enough to just let go? As guys, wouldn't that mean a lot to you if you had a woman with whom you could really get off like that??
thoughts?

 

That's awesome, I have never had an orgasm during sex yet, I've always had to help the girl out afterwards. I think it's a trust issue or maybe just being comfortable.

I guess I'm waiting for that one "special" girl.

 

yeah, I'm hoping my guy realizes that what we have IS special... I hope you find that too!

 

sex is sex, ultimately, if you concentrate yourself enough you can blow your wad into anything

 

I guess at age 22 this is the case.. but we're talking about a man who is in his 40's and has had a lot of partners.

 

sounds like your man feels at ease and comfortable with you Gracie Lou... if he isn't cumming with other women he's been with then he is feeling anxiety and pressure... and not trusting them emotionally..

 

viagra can make it difficult to cum (not that that's a bad thing)

 

I'm 22 and I can't. It takes 45 minutes or more and even then its a struggle to get me to that point. Usually if I'm with someone else they'll be doing something I like, then it'll turn me off for whatever reason or I'll get overstimulated and gotta move on to something else. Other guys act like they can blow their load in under a minute, I don't think I could get it under 10 minutes if my life depended on it.

 

I think that as you get older, and you're with someone new, the plumbing doesn't always want to do what YOU want it to do. I've been with my wife for 7 years so far, and I recently messed around with someone online only once. During that one time, I found that I couldn't perform as much as I wanted to, probably because it was with someone I wasn't familiar with. And although I did get arroused at times, once we stopped for more than 30 seconds to change positions, I was like a wet noodle, and she had to give me oral to get back up again. Nonetheless, she got hers and I didn't. I was a little embarrassed, but I didn't care. At least I got into her panties.