Are you (or anyone you know) a big " I love you" person?

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  1. Gravity

    Gravity #winning

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    Are you a big "I love you" person, especially with family? My dad tells me he loves me at the end of most every phone conversation we have, and my grandma just did the same thing, though she usually doesn't.

    I know those three words make some people uncomfortable; where do you stand?
     
  2. jerry420

    jerry420 Doctor of everything Lifetime Supporter

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    i love...love...and i say it all the time...
     
  3. shadowmya

    shadowmya Confused

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    I tell almost everyone I love them. Except most of my family members.
     
  4. dollydagger

    dollydagger Needle to the Groove

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    I tell everyone that I love......lost a few loved ones along the way so I never let an opportunity to say it pass me by anymore.
     
  5. odon

    odon Slightly Popular

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    I've only said it to one person (an ex) - never ever again.
    She did not deserve it. She was and is a bitch.
    I don't say it to anybody or anything, well, apart from maybe the Lasagna ready meals I always find myself eating. Not even family.

    Maybe I think they do not need to hear it.

    More likely it is just me.
     
  6. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    I say I "love you" to women very soon after I meet 'em.

    Freaks them out. :D

    But I'm not a big Iloveyouer with family and friends.
     
  7. seamonster66

    seamonster66 discount dracula

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    my parents say it a lot, my girlfriend says it a lot, I say it a fair amount
     
  8. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    my mom's side of the family are all lovey, so i occasionally say it to my mom and grandma to appease them... other than that i only say it to myself
     
  9. Frieden

    Frieden Senior Member

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    I tell my dog I love her about a zillion times a day. Other than that, I don't even tell my mom I love her. :cool:
     
  10. odon

    odon Slightly Popular

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    TF I am not alone.
     
  11. Frieden

    Frieden Senior Member

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    Yeah but you've said it to an ex. Something I haven't even done....not even with a guy I've been with for a year. It's really awkward when they say it. The L word makes me itch.
     
  12. dolls2diamonds

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    I always tell my family that I love them when we say goodbye in person or on the phone, you never know when or if you will see them again and I don't want any regrets in that way that they didn't hear it from me.
     
  13. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    my family does not say it nor is big on it that much... I say it a lot cause believe it or not I have the ability... My bf says it to me at least 30 times a day...I know, he's scared for his life that's why he says it...
     
  14. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    my bf says it -a lot-, i say it a fair amount as does my family, save for my stepdad who (as far as im aware) hasnt said the l-word since the woman he was engaged to years before meeting my mother (and my mom and him started dating over a dozen yeras ago)
     
  15. odon

    odon Slightly Popular

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    In my defense, it was prised out of me. :rolleyes:
    I'm blaming my childhood.
     
  16. BraveSirRubin

    BraveSirRubin Members

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    No, not at all.
     
  17. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    oh io say it alot to a ton of people becauise i feel it alot for tons of people but i dont say it with family....
     
  18. dollydagger

    dollydagger Needle to the Groove

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    I love you!
     
  19. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    somebody's feeling her dinner :rolleyes:
     
  20. NightRose

    NightRose idiosynractic rose

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    Hearing someone say to me "I love you" or saying it to someone myself does make me uncomfortable. I'm not that used to hearing it, and I don't t think that it is a sentance that should be said if you do not mean it.
     
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