Hi everyone, I'm new on this site and I'm here to get some advices from you all. so here is my situation. I met this girl, 2 months ago and it clicked. haven't seen her during those 2 months but we saw each other at a party organized for exchange students. She had to leave early to catch her train, but she gave me that "I'll see you soon I hope" kinda french kiss. Next day, she comes to town (she lives a town near mine) and Invite me for a beer (afternoon). We ended up spending all evening together walking around, talking, french kissing, french kissing alot, but again, she had to leave to catch the last train. So here we are, 2 days after. I've been inviting her to do stuff...dinner, drink, watch football game, etc, but she never said no, but never answered. Am I trying too much??? the other thing is, I'm leaving in 2 days (she is leaving in 2 weeks) for our home country and might never see each other again. I really want to see her again before I leave, but I'm not sure she wants to ever been in this situation before??? what should I think of her "no answers" to my invitations??? (sorry, english is not my first language)
whoa dude, i dunno your ages but football for a girl?? no way. i dunno, so far ive found better not to ask women out for a drink, but suggest it when your out for something else. tell her you are leaving soon and would like to see her again before you go, offer a dinner or a movie after at some nice place. then during the evening maybe tell her you may never see each other again and its not what you want... see where it goes from there ... :S
if I were you I'd leave it be right now, you hung out with her two days ago, and you tried to contact her since with no response back.. so let her make the next move. and if she doesn't.. so be it take it for what it was - a couple of fun evenings
sorry for the mistake...football=soccer. With the euro championship going on here in Europe, trust me, girls do like soccer. thx for the advice to you two. she is suppose to come in town tonight, we'll figure something out if she does...
i agree, it was two days ago, which isn't that long. she's probly getting her feelings in order and planning her next move, so she can act cool and not look awkward you should probably be doing the same, as it sounds as nothing has gone wrong and you both seem to be diggin each other
