Kind of an Awkward Situation. I'm weird. Your thoughts, please?

ok... she's kind of a loner (like you, u said)... emm.. she's beatiful.. charming... u keep meeting her in places u cant explain... u believe in fate... she's smiling whenever u see her... WTF???? what more can i say?? u still havent talked to her... just tell her i'm sorry... or give her a chance to talk to you!! ok... ur weird!!

only advice i can give u mate is ... talk to her!

 

Hey, I'm a girl -- so I'm not macho!

But I am a fiery woman and being such I like strong men to step to me directly!

If I'm in a princess mood, typical for a stuck-up Scorp like myself, and someone the audacity to approach me and pierce my little ego by calling me cold -- well, I'd secretly have super respect for that type of daring.

But then if he came back and apologized for having what I thought was guts and boldness ..well then, I just lost my interest.

 

Obviously you haven't read the whole thread. He did talk to her, a bunch of times.

 

Had no clue you were a girl. My apologies.

 

All romance starts off as fantasy. Romance is a reach for the ideal ... not the ordinary.

It's fun to discuss potential and what could be. (and you know it!)

 

I see what you're saying Crueluserboy. You're absolutely right about it being a fantasy. I just was a little protective by denying it. I was a little afraid to admit it. However it was infact unrealistic. It really shouldn't have been...but I came off really strong and she a bit antisocial.

To be honest, at this point, I'm getting over the whole thing. It was misfortunate for me and probably her too. The school year is over. I'm not gonna see her. Well, not exactly, I just noticed last week that her house backs up right up to a friend of mines where I always am and outside too. I've seen her walking home in that area but I had no clue she was right there until I saw her outside. I wouldn't call that fate however, just coincidence because I don't live there. I'm not exactly comfortable at that house anymore.

 

I'd love to talk to you in real life, you are so interesting and honest. And intelligent.

 

meh...chutzpah is overrated. :tongue:

 

he is intelligent isn't he? bit too young for me jk

edit: a bit too old lol

 

its not a big deal, sure it was a bit of an f-up but every guy has done something like that before. You could try again but just ignore that last encounter. Act like you have had no previous encounter with her. but don't just say ummm i was thinking maybe you would like to go out on...mention something that happened in class with some detail but not too long, ask her a question about someting, keep it fairly short, if there is any interest shown at all, put out some random flirtations...sometimes talk to her sometimes don't, not because you have some metric but because you have an impulse to do something else and then another time there is a perfect opportunity to make fun of her or tell her a short story, ask her something just a little personal (kind of a sly complement), then get her phone number if she hasn't already offered it to you (thats pretty rare).

you might confuse her a little, but the idea is to confuse her, induce her to think about you while you are not there, but without her thinking you are weird or a wimp. oh if this girl has already mde up your mind than damn that sucks , but thats how it is, try others even if you don't have a mad crush for her, e.g.. you just like her a little.