Does it Turn you off if?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by sophieclair, Jun 13, 2008.

  1. sunshine186

    sunshine186 midnight toker

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    How was BornFree being shallow?
     
  2. Vire

    Vire Member

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    Me too.
     
  3. yemisdate

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  4. prissbaby

    prissbaby creepy

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    I get attracted to people usually based on their personality not how much they weigh
     
  5. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    It all depends on the degree of overweight. Some women consider themselves over weight at 5'4 and 130lbs which i do not consider over weight at all.
    a 5'4 200 lb woman i would not find as physically attractive as a 5'4 130 lb woman, but that doesnt mean i wouldn't be attracted at all to the 200 lb woman.
    as cliche as it may be, its more about the person than the weight.
     
  6. Cuff

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    Im not unattracted to guys that are overweight, i find them just as attractive as any other person, but i dont know about men. From everything i hear guys say about large people, i think most guys would rather die than screw a big girl, which is rediculous. This could just be me, but appearances have almost nothing to do with my attraction to a person. I may think someone is good looking, but the face is all that rly matters to me.

    I have a chubby chaser friend who is like my brother, and he is ONLY attracted to larger women. It good to see a change in the typical preferences, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, afterall.
     
  7. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    I couldn't agree more! I just wanted to say you are a very beautiful girl. I am not bi or anything like that, but I just had to tell you.:iagree:
     
  8. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    well I have been working out I have lost 21lbs since january. I love working out, I go to curves. It is so up beat and I get a great work out. The worst thing is I hardly eat a damn thing, not to really starve myself. I just am not hunger. Sometimes I am lucky to even be hungry for one ego waffle. I mean don't get me wrong, I like food and not the ones loaded with grease. I almost fainted at my party a couple weeks ago, because I wasn't eating anything and was not hungry. Sometimes I am luck to keep my food down, because I have acid reflux. I am not a tooth pick. The most weight I ever lost was 90lbs. I gained some back. I just wish that people would accept me for who I am. If you want to see pictures of me. Here is a picture of myseld, I think I am fairly good looking:
    http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...endID=11795972&albumID=420839&imageID=2022534
     
  9. deleted

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    i used to have a nice little fat girl with a really tight orgasmic pussy... pretty full Face and Bright eyes.. very attractive.. Large boobs.. But as I said she was little, I was a foot taller than her. She was a great love maker, and didnt tire out very easy.. unlike I can say for the miss skinny minnys...
     
  10. EarthChildOfPeace

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    I think for me it's more a matter of health. If a guy is heavier than usual, but he has clear skin and doesn't walk around eating junk food and smoking all the time then i wouldn't find him unattractive. But goes the other way, I see skinny dudes walk around eating crap all day and it makes me think how they must be unhealthy on the inside and not feel good or energetic. So fat like, obese turns me off, because it makes me think of unhealthy, but bigger or smaller than average are kinda the same for me.
     
  11. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    I understand that point of view. If a person is eating crap and is unhealthy.
     
  12. Shale

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    I am not physically/sexually attracted to fat guys or girls. Please don't call me shallow for that. After all I just made an honest statement of what does not turn me on.

    I have overweight friends. They are some of the nicest, caring and enjoyable companions. I just don't get turned on by them. There was a time that I did soul searching on why that was - why some of my nicest friends could not be my lovers.

    When I was a young pussy hound, I bedded a woman who was short and over 200 pounds. We had fun in bed and she fed me steak, eggs and potatoes next morning before I left. But, that is the only time I had sex with such a fat person.

    It could be culturally induced or it could be just the way I was born. I've noticed a lot of fine, thin, muscular black men who are really turned on by big booty (and everything else) women. My dad was into heavy women (not my mom who was svelt and who he only stayed with for 5 years) His last wife was about 300 pounds. I can't countenance that but it worked for him.

    So, I have answered the original question in that fat ppl don't excite me sexually. But, they excite other ppl so it is all good.
     
  13. A New Era

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    Depends how much. I don't mind girls who are a bit "chubby", in fact I sort of like it a bit sometimes, as long as they are not so overweight that they lose the womanly shape. My ex-girlfriend was slightly overweight, but it was completely fine. She had a great personality, nice voice, amazingly cute facial expressions, and loved sex and wasn't ashamed of it.
     
  14. Cuff

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    Wow, I think thats the best way ive ever heard someone describe it. :peace:
     
  15. Utilitarian

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    Depends on how overweight and how much muscle tone she has. A woman who never exercises will never be attractive if she is overweight, if she can run a mile though she will have a thick thighs, firm round ass and toned abdomen along with swollen breasts and thus extremely hot.
     
  16. RidinLow

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    i love over weight women.. such a turn on :p
     
  17. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    I know someone from the part of Canada you are from.
     
  18. RidinLow

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    oh yeah, what city are they from?
     
  19. kiaba360

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    I find it to be a turn off, but i guess it also depends on how big she is, her personality, etc.
     
  20. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    Not sure lol
     

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