ok so i love sex....LOVE IT!!! But I have a hard time reaching an orgasim with my man. He has done everything. and though it feels good, i never seem to climax. (I can only climax when I'm flying solo if you know what i mean) My clit isnt very sinsitive so i have conciderd my options of what i could do to make it more sinsitive. I thought of surgicly removing my hood and i also conciderd a hood piercing...i think a hood piercing would work well for me concidering i am very sinsitive under my hood.... anyone here have a piercing, and do you like it and would you recomend it? or do i have any other options? I really dont think surgery is for me. thanks for reading. Christa
Has he gotten down there and worked it over with his lips and tongue? Enough of that usually does the job. Elsewise, see a doctor and forget the embarrassment part. They're too busy to remember who you are and what your problem is. Go!
My ex-girlfriend had the same problem. She couldn't orgasm (on the most part) unless I performed oral. Then one day we both got piercings. I got my "frenulum" (underside of the penis, just below the head) and she got her hood pierced. After that, the sex was SO much more enjoyable. I couldn't stop her from having an orgasm if I tried. Try that out before you even consider surgery!
Only 25-30% of women can orgasm from intercourse alone; another 25% can orgasm with clitoral massage and intercourse together; another 25% only can achieve it through masturbation, and the rest seldom or never get one. But keep trying.
