i don't know why, but i just can't have successful sex with a condom. my girlfriend and i like to start without one and everything works just fine... and its great. then after a minute or so i'll pull out and put one on. my problem is that it kills ALL feeling, and therefore makes me go limp after a very short time. I have tried multiple types of condoms and i have come to the conclusion that i need a large size, lately i've been using magnums. i've been successful before, but it just should not be this hard to keep an erection. she says that i let it get to my head, because without one it's glorious and as soon as i put one on i am literally useless. She's not on the pill either, so i am in kind of a pickle. any suggestions?
if you're not worried about disease, look up something called VCF Vaginal contraceptive films. They're as effective as condoms, (used properly) and don't interfere with sensation at all. I'm somewhat envious of guys that can wear condoms, but I'm allergic to latex, and the last time I wore a latex one, my equipment swelled up to a beer can, and I had to cut the rubber off. Plastic ones are damn near useless as they break easily, and I've had no experience with lambskin. something else that doesn't help: condoms are often cold when you put them on. that's a serious erection kill.
i see. this may not be an option, plus i don't know if i trust leaving sperm inside for 6 hours... that seems risky.
