Got a bit of a problem...

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by Calen, Jun 22, 2008.

  1. Calen

    Calen Guest

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    hey guys I gotta be real here. I met a chick online and she seems like a nice girl and all. She cares about me and stuff like that. The truth is she's a cam girl but I met her in a dating site, not a....you know. She's doing her job to earn for her studies (She's a nursing student) and to support her family. So she asked me to sign up for her sites and I did some of them which cost me some money because I wanted to help her. I know I'm really stupid but oh well. She even asked me to buy prepaid credit cards so I can sign up again to her sites and so she can earn bonuses. I had gave her a lot of money so she can accomplish her studies and all. Now she's asking for some again because she said her roof got crashed (She lives in the Philippines and there was a typhoon recently). I have never met her personally but I would want to because she really is a nice girl but I duno guys. What do you think? Should I keep on supporting her? I know all of you would tell me that I'm stupid to fall for that but I just, I really think that I like her and I want to visit her at sometime.
     
  2. Freealize

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    NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, Dooood!

    It's a scam. Thai girls often use the "our water buffalo died" line to get money from their farang courtiers. The roof one is new to me, but the game aint.

    Please don't give her any more money. You're probably being played.
     
  3. prissbaby

    prissbaby creepy

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    are you dumb? stop dishing your money out to someone from the Phillipines that you met online, she could be married and just scamming you for cash. I don't care how 'nice' she is. don't be dumb. save your money or spend it on yourself.
     
  4. MikeE

    MikeE Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    How foolish will your bank account support?

    Do not sign up for credit cards etc. for her. Sending her cash may be foolish, but once you stop, you stop. Credit cards, you have to keep paying even after you stop wanting to help her.

    You know its foolish, knock your self out. (Hey, wasting money on a woman? If you know your being a fool, go for it as long as you want.) But make sure that you can stop sending money, once you decide to be sensible (i.e. no contracts)
     
  5. Alaskan

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    I can remember when I was in the Philipines ( P.I.) I was in a bar one morning when Mama-san brought in the mail to the Bar-girls.
    They got a lot of mail from "in-love" sailors and airmen. They would sort the mail, if there was money in the letter they would answer it, if not file 13.
    Dont be a sucker.....Alaskan
     
  6. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    What is so special about this girl?
     
  7. does2

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    obviously nothing. looks? talk? both questionable.

    to the OP, it is a scam, and you seem to be half way aware of that.
    if you are doubting her, or her motives then maybe you should look at the whole situation again, you might see something everyone else sees.
     
  8. Formertechno34

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    Dude..she is using you. Wake up!
     
  9. Independent

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    Hi Calen :) ..I think you can controle it with ease. You can say her ,"You know ,my darling, i don't have money now because I have many problems with my work ,like, you left the service ..or something else..like i can't pay for your inquiris at the moment,if u can wait me :)..
    I can't say that she is bad ,because i don't know her..
    And it doesn't depend on her nationality..My brother 's girlfriend is from Philippine too,and she is very nice and modest girl ..
    Just examine her .. :)
     
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    roflao
     
  11. His Eden

    His Eden Queen of Mean

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    Do NOT send more money, or spend more money on this woman. Do NOT sign up for any more of her porn/whatever sites.

    This has SCAM written all over it. My brother has had women profess their undying love and then "please send money or I will be homeless, lose the internet, be unable to pay medical bills, feed the family, repair the car to get to work." When he says no, they quickly disappear. If you want to know her intent stop spending money on her. If she sticks around...maybe *and that is a HUGE maybe* she is for real. If not, well you have your answer.

    Some "women" online will scam more money out of you than a mail order bride tour would cost you. At least with the mail order bride you stand a chance....

    Most of the scamming happens from women that claim to be from other countries, but if you track the IP it is rarely in the same country. If her home got struck by a typhoon wouldnt it be covered under insurance, government, some other natural disaster fund? Just wondering....
     
  12. pielover375

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    Don't be a dumb ass, bro. This chick's taking you for a ride and you're gonna get burned.
     

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