Did i mess up with him...

So I was at this guys house, I met through one of our mutual friends. We were in his back smoking some weed and occasionally I was left alone with this guy I was very much attracted to. When I found out he was gay I asked him to come closer like I was gonna tell him a secret and licked his ear. I don't know. I was high, seemed like a good idea. Not really though. So is that a big thing or passable? I don't like asking for advice, but really how can I get with this guy or at least get passed that impulse move.

 

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Cheers Glen.

 

well we were around people. one of his friends and some annoying guy who was only smoking with us cause he threw down like $30. i tried to get him alone to flirt more with him, and i kinda wanted to kiss him. so yeah i licked his ear but he kinda smiled and was like "oh really? me too". but then like it was kinda awkward around everyone else so i just kinda left. it was pretty late anyway and i knew when i got back to my house my parents were gonna be pissed i was out all night with friends smoking. and i reeked of pot. so idk what he thought, i know it was the first time we hung out even though ive seen him around mjy town before. and he said he thought i was cute and would look good with a faux hawk... idk i just dont know what to do now. i txted him and he didnt txt me back, and i dont wanna be annoying so....

 

So Just Give It A Few Days And See If He Returns Your Message. But Don't Be Pushy, And Don't Text Him Again Today. If You Haven't Heard From Him After A Few Days, Text Him Again, Tell Him You Had Fun, And If He Wants To Kick Back Sometime He's Got Your Number...And Leave It At That. Ball's In His Court. It Sounds Like He Was Playing It Cool Or Just Feeling You Out, Or He May Be Shy. Let Your Interest Be Known But Not In An Aggressive Way. Good Luck.

 

i found out he also likes me. im so happy. a nice, smart, sexy gay stoner that lives in the same town, close to my age likes me. i am so happy ^_^

 

So you're really 22??

Anyway- I think it's a bit weird that you licked his ear. Good luck with the situation.

 

Aw, Good For You :biggrin: