I am so sorry sweetie, where did you meet this guy? It can really hurt bad when you truly love someone. Was he just using you for sex? If so I would cut off contact. It is not fair for you to have to deal with his bagage, if he is just gonna use you. Trust me I know how bad it feels, when you think someone loves you for you and they turn out not to give a damn at all. Sweetheart I would just move on and try to pick up the pieces of your heart. You will meet someone, who loves you for you. How old are you sweetie? If you need someone to talk to you can either PM me or yahoo message me at behinderhereyes. I am sorry that he hurt you.
It will take a while to get over him. It took me a couple years to get over a guy I'd fallen for. I finally realized it was best for myself to not even talk to him. I hope you are able to move on quicker then I did.
Hey Slightly Stoopid... first off your not stupid and its okay to feel pain and anger and consusing and sadness..all of it... as sophieclair beautifully points out it will take time to move on hopefully faster than we both did !! and just know that if its truely meant to be it would be!! you are 19 and still have so much time to find someone who will be true to YOU goodluck and I hope everything works itself out... it always does!! =) <3
I have been told that my whole life. If it is meant to be it will happen. I love this, because it could happen at the stragest time. I suggest just don't worry about dating, it will come to you if you don't look for it.