Girlfriend situation...would like some advice.

So me and this girl have been dating for about 2 months..starting getting more serious about 3 weeks ago. Anyways she went to Europe for 10 days at one point and came back.

A week after she came back she tells me that some guy made a move on her...she sorry she didnt tell me. I find out from her friend that they actually made out drunk, on the dance floor.... So anways I break it off, pretty upset that she didn't even tell me the truth, but knew I had to do it.

I thought I would just move on, but i knew it would take some time. This girl became my best friend, which usually never happens to me in relationships. I was calling her to hang out before they boys. Its been 5 days. She keeps calling leaving messages crying, sending me texts...about how sorry she is and that she misses me. She wrote me a note and left it in my car stating how sorry she is ect. I left her one back saying how upset I am ect.

I feel like shes sorry and want to give her a chance, but I'm not sure how long to wait to see if shes the real deal...should I just become friends with her again and ses what happens? or just go back to where we were before at stage 1 of dating?

I am also asking if anyone else has been in the same situation before. Thanks alot in advance!

 

Give her another chance.

Say you went to Europe for a bit and some hot chick was drunk as fuck and wanted to make out with you would you really resist it?

 

right on...earlier in my life i'd say screw her. But in all honesty, if you had the chance with european chick you'd probably do the same. I mean it's been 2 months, long time, but not oober "I love you" serious. Giver her a chance, but if it happens again stand true to yourself

 

Hopefully!

I hear these things take time, but I wouldn't know. I do know that I have an ego the size of Montana and probably wouldn't be able to get past it. Shitty, but the truth. You don't mess around on me. Period. Alcohol or not. I don't give a shit.

But that's just me (and also just an assumption). The ideal thing would be to be a wonderful forgiving person and take her back if you really believe she's sorry and won't let it happen again. Maybe she wasn't aware of how she acts when she's gotten drunk (not very likely, but hey, it's a thought). I don't know, but really in the end, it's gonna be up to you. Nobody can tell you how to act or feel. It depends on whether or not you can truly be with her again and can forgive her. Trust will have to be built back up and all that and you have to make sure she's ready for that as well. 'Cos she's gonna have some work to do to earn it again.