Advice on a threesome...

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by ginjaninja7, Apr 24, 2008.

  1. ginjaninja7

    ginjaninja7 Member

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    During a weekend away from our family, my wife suggested a 3some with a stranger we had met in the hotel bar only a couple of hours earlier. We were back in our hotel room for a couple of drinks after the bar in the hotel had closed. We chatted for few hours about the guys recent split from his wife when, the guy got up & made to say his goodnights & leave, my wife then took me by surprise by asking me if the guy could stay the night, for obvious reasons, a threesome. This was totally unexpected & surprised me, to which I replied with a firm NO. What does this tell me about my wife. Advice very much appreciated.
     
  2. Lady of the Freaks

    Lady of the Freaks Senior Member

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    she's horny.
     
  3. ginjaninja7

    ginjaninja7 Member

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    She's VERY horny...:) But she took me very much by surprise & in a way, now that I've had time to think about it, I've had mixed feelings of extreme jealousy & being very turned on by this. Whats the next move..:)
     
  4. Lady of the Freaks

    Lady of the Freaks Senior Member

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    well, you...um...blew that opportunity...heheh...so to speak.

    guess you'll have to...um...jump on it...heheh...next time she makes the suggestion. [​IMG]
     
  5. ginjaninja7

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    The next again day we had the most fantastic fuck thinking about her taking another mans cock up her whilst sucking me off...:) Do you think I should let her fulfill her fantasy or just leave it at that...........................a fantasy..?? :H :H
     
  6. Lady of the Freaks

    Lady of the Freaks Senior Member

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    well, that's up to you two. alot of people screw up their relationships playing with fire such as this. *shrug* no one can say for sure how it will turn out for you.
     
  7. Number6

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    The number one rule of sex is never do anything you are uncomfortable doing, this only leads to regret and guilt. You made the right decision by saying no initially. If you feel this might be something you want to eventually do then to her talk about it and while you are talking about it, throw in the possibility of a threesome with another woman and see how she feels about that, after all, fair is fair. In the mean time, it would be a good idea to keep it in the realm of fantasy.
     
  8. BabyMopar

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    I agree with Number6 on this.. if it makes you uncomfortable then dont do it.. BUT if you find it turns you on then talk with your wife about it and decide if you want to keep it as a fantasy or live it out. IF you decide to live it out then set down ground rules and make sure all parties involved agree to them. (as you can tell i have been there before).
     
  9. Angelina31

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    Don't ruin the fantasy by going through with it, just enjoy the rewards of how it makes you both feel thinking about it. You can elaborate on it in your own way and make sex exciting by talking about it, but to go through with it will be a mistake. Or at least that's my opinion! The idea of my husband with another woman is so exciting to me, but I think that to actually go through with it would be a whole other, messy level. Better to keep these things in my fantasies..!
     
  10. Green_Goddess

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    I'd say go for it if your marriage can handle it.. if you guys aren't strong enough of a couple it will destroy your marriage.. jealousy, resentments, weird feelings can definitely destroy you two.. but if you guys can go through something like that and come out strong as ever then why not?? it might be time for some excitement in your sex life.. but I would not do it if you have any doubts at all.. it would really suck if something like that destroyed your marriage but again.. if it just spices it up.. have fun!!
    Much Love*
     
  11. Cool Spruce

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    Excellent point. That needs to be explored a bit further.
     
  12. LexLuv101

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    I'm sure it's just a fantasy she's likely had for awhile and chose to voice it to you then, having the sudden urge to actually go for it. I'm glad you declined first, though, as it's something that needs serious thought for a relationship, and not a sudden spontaneous decision.
     
  13. themaster

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    man u should go for it. she would love it

    ur wife is a slut, and u know it. so have fun, you wont regret it!
     
  14. giota_jak

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    yes you have to go for it. it is an experience every girl should have. but make sure that you both want it and nobody is going to regret it
     
  15. ChronicTom

    ChronicTom Banned

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    Wether you should go for it is only something you and your wife can decide for yourselves.

    If you have problems in your marriage, this will aggravate them seriously.

    If you enjoy an honest and open relationship with your wife, then talk to her about it, decide between the two of you what is best.

    From my perspective, I am of two minds from what you said. Your wife either feels you have an open and honest relationship where it is okay to express those desires to you, or she doesn't care beyond what she wants.

    In the end, it comes down to you and your wife.
     

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