**my husband is mad at me cause who i hang out with***

I'm thinking you be might such a catch he's afraid he won't be able to keep you around forever. Insecurity on his part. My gal has very low self-esteem, so any time there's a female Im friends with who I want to chill with, she becomes suspicious. Now, granted, I have a touch of the crazies, and when it acts up I've made some...unfortunate choices.

But they both stuck around. That's real care. We both had to kick the pain pills, most couples don't work out during detox, but we gave a lot of support to each other. Have you thought about inviting him along? It's not in the action itself, but just demonstrating that if he's got an issue, you'll work on it together. Can't be mad if he's there too.

I guess it's kind of natural, jealousy that is (esp. with such a foxy companion!). It may seem annoying, but I'd recommend just giving him the benefit of the doubt (and vice versa). He just doesn't want to lose ya. If you've been living with him though, and you'll be moving from him yet maintaining the marriage, that might send him some shocking signals, even without any intent there. You originally posted a while ago, any update?