Just cant get it out of my mind..

Well, lately my hearts been pretty abused, used, and shattered. I fell in love with this guy and we had dated for so long, and he tells me he has to move away to new orleans. Once he told me (we had meet in secrecy) I ran home into my room and felt like my heart had exploded as tears of sorrow ran down my cheeks..

I loved him this much, and sooner than I hoped, he left. We still were dating, but this distance was heart wretchingly difficult for me and I just couldnt beleive he would ever return back home. We talked all days and nights for about 3 months and I started to get angry for feeling so alone for so long. Then I started getting doubts about us and I felt I had more to experience. Next thing I knew, I broke it off.

I started to date again, and I pretty much had the guy of my choosing, I tried to fall in love with my new guy. but It just didnt work, and the next, and the next.. they were both very attractive and had good lives, but..








its just so hard. and I tried to get in touch with jak again, and I still have feelings for him, but he has a new girlfriend and has moved on... Im still young, but


I hate being heartbroken and lonely.. i need reasuurance someone will love me someday....
GAAAAAAH x_x



I want a hippie like meeeeee :B

 

awww thats so sad. *hugs* i know a small amount of how you feel to love someone that much and then lose them, im in the process of losing mine at the moment for similar reasons really, i moved with my boyfriend but hate it and cant live here coz he is away a lot, so we will inevitably go our seperate ways and my heart feels the same way and it hasnt happened yet, all i can say is im sure you will find love again or if it really is meant to be with this chap, you will get back together one day. try and stay strong and positive, everything happens for a reason i suppose.

Take care.

 

I guess your right, I know, Its just really hard to handle..

 

You're only 16. You've got a ways to go. It'll be a while untill you're over it. He probably isn't over it yet either though so keep that in mind and maybe you will call him again.

 

your young and even though you are hurting it will get better. I keep telling my 17 year old that also she has just been through a bad break up. so keep your chin up

 

You know, everyone is going to tell you that you'll get over it and to be happy or whatever and forget it but they're wrong. You need to feel that hurt, the emptiness that you feel without him. It's completely natural and healthy to feel those feelings, I'd be scared if you didn't feel them. And it's what you learn from those feelings that makes you feel better. And if you can't bare to be without him long after the breakup then that tells you that you need to be with him and that you need to go get him back in your life.

 

You have to remember that you can't always get him (or her) back in your life.

 

But it's always worth a try.

 

^I agree with you, but up to a point. If the person is that important to you then it would be a mistake not to try - but sometimes the most loving thing you can do for both of you is to let go.

 

yeah, im pretty sure he's moved on with some new girl.. And I guess the one thing I want for him is to be happy, because thats how he always made me feel.. But you know, hes kind of immature and weve grown apart, so I really hope there is someone out there for me as I for them. :]

 

focus on other things like maybe school and when you least expect it you might meet someone new.

 

Great advice. I've found that when I've looked for a relationship, it never happened but when I focus my attention elsewhere and forget about getting into a relationship, bam, I'm in a relationship. Funny how that works.

 

thanks now if only my 17 year old would take it