Want to see my GF fuck other guys. Is this normal?

Hi

I have a relationship for many years. She is the girl of my dreams. We have perfect sex, very often and we try several new things.

We had a gangbang, me, her and an other guy we met once (we were drunk that night). We had a gangbang with him many times after that and we both enjoyed it.

I am a hetero, I never tried or wanted to try touching the other guy.

But that was the sexiest experience of my life and my GF was even more excited.

The thing is now I often picture her having sex with other guys, cheating on me etc and I get really horny. I find myself getting hard on the idea of her cheating on me.

I told her about this only when we are both horny, so she accepted this as a fantasy. I don't know if I have to tell her about my thoughts when we are not horny, because I think she will fuck other guys right away and I am not sure about this yet, because I might regret it.

Any advice?

 

I think it would only be okay in a threesome type situation. You don't want to give her free reign to an open relationship, because I know from experience that a serious relationship just can't go to an open one with no problems (in most cases). Suggest another threesome, maybe. where you can watch. Be careful, though. Again, I know from experience that threesomes can seriously fuck up a relationship.

 

i guess i will go for an other gangbang. watching sounds a good idea...

thank u

 

shoot yourself, for your mind is empty and pathetic

 

i've heard things like this many times before...it's not uncommon.

but, a lot of times the person initiating the fantasy ends up in pain if their partner finds she likes this other person more and goes off with him.

be careful.

 

no for me is fun. my opinion is to do whatever u want to do, but always be there. dont let her have sex alone. you should be their, at least watching.

 

I agree with giota_jak.

Have fun but don't let her go fuck who ever she wants alone.

make it a threesome, or more some.

Share the details with us, too.

 

Here's a thought for you. I'm assuming that you fantasize about this when you're masturbating. After you get off does the thought of her fucking somebody else still turn you on? I've had the same thoughts about seeing my fiancee with other men. Usually after I cum though, I have different opinions on the matter.

 

yeah you definitely have to have some control of the situation

 

I've had the same situation happen to me, but as the girl.

Although I don't know if my bf gets off on it as much as I do.

It's cool to know that other people get off on thinking their partner is cheating on them/fucking other people because as of late, it is the ultimate turn-on for me.. imagining my bf kissing another girl, getting hard just for her, and not thinking about me. We often role-play that I am the other girl and he is cheating on me with her. I make him say things like, "oh don't tell my girlfriend, you are so hot, everytime i see you i imagine your pussy, oh, that one time you lifted your skirt,, etc..."

I'm actually really aroused just typing it.

Not that I'd want him to cheat on me in real life, but the fantasy definitely lingers in real life, and I want to watch him get aroused by someone else so much.

 

word.

you are a sad soul.

 

Huh?

 

that came out a little confusing sorry. the "word." was to squilla for his comment...the "sad soul" was directed to the OP.

 

dude what the fuck is a cuckold lol