ok we had a conversation with my bf. i told him i wanna have sex with this guy and maybe more men. he said ok, as long he is there, participating or watching... i didnt tell him all the truth but i think that was the best thing to do
You've already gone as far as telling him that little bit. You might as well tell him the whole truth... I mean come on, you might as well not have told him anything at all if you're only going to give him a part of the truth. Woman up and tell him everything, and stop pussy-footing with your little game. This guy's feelings are at stake, and you're busy toying with him. Because if he finds out the truth some other way, you can kiss your relationship goodbye.
On the one hand participating in a threesome with your boyfriend and X implies that your relationship is open and you are both free to persue other relationships. On the otherhand you are not being honest with him either and this is definitely a problem. You need to be honest with him so he can make a fully informed descion for himself if he wants to continue in the relationship or not. You will never be wrong by being honest. One thing I want to bring up is how do you feel about your boyfriend engaging in the same activities you are ? Are you okay with him seeing another woman on a regular basis and perhaps occasionally having group sex without you ?
ok here is the final deal. I told him everything. He was disappointed because i did't tell him about my "adventure". but he seemed to be ok with it. his exact words: "i wanted to see you having sex with some other guy. You should told me about this." he agreed to have some open relationship for some time but he wants to be there if i do anything alone. he also said that he will sleep with other girls. so the problems is solved! from now on this post will include only the spicy details and not problems! Thank you all Love Giota
not for the moment... we havent found anyone yet and my bf doesn't feel confortable doing this with the guy we used to do it...
tell him honestly about your desires, if he agreed to a gangbang once; he may be open to other things- but that would be a lot better than continuing to cheat on him