I need HELP! please >.< WARNING! My story is kinda ...long ^^

OK you guys please hear me out ...

THe thing is about the guy I really liked, well still like, its more like I m crazy about him. We have known each other for a year and been pretty good friens ( we had the same classes) but we rarely hanged out after school. When i realized that my feelings were not freindship like ( which was almost in the beginning of the year) I couldn't really tell him, because he was dating soemone and i didn't want to confuse the situation. Than later on his girlfriend broke up with him, of course he was devasted looked like he really liked her, but as soon as he was over her he started dating another one. It did annoy me a little but I was cool tod eal with it. LAter on I got a friend to help me out. ( not what you think that guy just asked what my crush thought about me) Turned out that my crush ( ok lets name him Jake) likes me at some point and doesn't want to hurt me in anyways and I think he knew that I had feelings for him. The problem was Jake, isn t really handsome but he is a really sweet guy and he has a looooot of girls aftre him, so he had to kinda decide who to take. Well as the time passed on, we hanged out more and became to know each other better. We smsed all the time and met time sometimes after school. He started dropping me home pretty often, and basically our days passed by us talkin either by sms or msn. OSunds nice doesn't it? Well so, sometime when he dropped me of from dance class ( yes we take same dance its ballroom, basically classincal and latino but o god u should see how sexy it looks like when guys move their hips in the right rythm XD) i decided to do my move ( yes he broke up with his gf and was free ) so taht day I kissed him, I didn't expect anything back but he answered with a make out (snog). When i stoped the kiss I smiled at him,(he s still holding me in his arms)
Him: Ummm
Me: Do you wnat to take it after summer?
Him: Ummm, ya its just... there is a lot of crap going on now...
Me: dont worry I completly understand...
Him; and you know, the only problem with me in the relatiosnhips is taht I'm always busy...
ME: Well than we have something in common listen i WANTED to tell you earlier, but you kept on escaping
him: haha you make me sound like a cinvict escaping from jail or sm ...

with that we made out for another 5 min and I went home. And so it carried on, when i came over we would fool around and he was pretty goodm he woudl give me hickeys ( many and i luv hose ^^) and i would gve him soem. you know like a couple just acts. the only thing was that we kept it secret... Itw as ok for me because i was happy with him and it looked liek he was with me too , we even forgot that we wanted to take it after the summer ^^
Our thing carried on for about 2 weeks until some strange stuff started to happen, well the push for tahtw as oene of his good friends who pointed out to me the fact that Jake hangs out Waaaaay to much, his best friend said the same thing so I believed it but itw as like that. Every day, not only that he skipped dance classes FOR HER, he would go over HER HOUSE and stay there for almost the whole day. After two weeks i couldn t hodl it anymore, even though i gave a warning to be careful not to hurt me anymore, everything he said was don t worry chill, i called him to make everything clear.

HIm: Hey sup?
ME: hey listen i have somethin important to ask u, do you ahve tiem now?
Him: sure, what up?
me: What are we?
Him:...
Him:... I dnt know...
Me: U dnt knwo?
Him: listen i know i shouldn t tell u that on the phone, but I ... dnt think this is going to work, i m sorry, you know i still ahve feelings
Me: you ahve feelings fro your ex I know.... but does that mean you ahve been playing me all this time?
Him: No! i wasn't...
ME: What were you trying to do?
Him: i was trying to forget...
ME : and? did it work?
Him.:...
ME : Listen, what if i can make you froget about her? What if we just carry on ...
Him: No!
ME: Why?
HIm: cause i dnt want to...
ME:...
ME: ... And whata re u planning to do now?
Him: Nothin...
Me: O ya that looks like nothing...
Him: Well she has a boyfriend, so I m not gonna go for her if she busy...
ME: listen... tell me the truth have you jsut bene playin me?
HIm: No, those weren t my intentions, i m really sorry
ME: li dn t really care who you date but be careful with the poepel around you...

after that i gave hima small speech of how his freidns were feeling ( well jsut 2 poeple) becasue all he does is spending time with his ex DAY and NIGHT but there isnt really nothing physical going on.
Well since thanhe keeps avoiding em completly...I wrote him a message basically saying eh shouldn t say sorry because he made me really happy and i m willing to have him back anytime. Summer started, he never replied to my messages anymore, never came onlyne, never answered my posts on facebook, i thought we would be gone to friends and i amde sure he knew i m not mad at him or anythhing, but since that day he keeps avoiding me... His attitude didn't really cahnge eh still spents his free tiem with her ( in secrecy cause his family dislieks her -.-'') Im really ok with him bein with her and stuff and i want to go back to what we were just friends. HEre is the biggest problem of all, I dnt want him to ignore me, i jsut want him to go back to what we were ( since i m not over him at all... tahts the other problem) i just wnat him once again to share his life with me and to think about em soemtiems ... you guys thanks for listening, i know the story has gotten long. That how it is, now my quetion is, any guesses y he s ignoring me? HOw can I make him stop ignoring me? How can we go bcak to friends? Basically how can I win him back? I hit a wall myself, and what can i do, to make myself feel better, for some reason i feel liek CRAP NOW and not when he broke up ...

THank you guys fro your understanding
I really apreciate the once who are reading it