Masturbation - am I normal???

I'm a 17year old girl and am worried that the way I masterbate is abnormal.

When I was about 13 yrs old, I came across my old baby bouncer (the type that hangs from door frames and lets babies boing up and down). Out of curiosity I hung the thing up and cut a long story short ended up sitting naked in it and having the most amazing organsm.

It was so good that I ended up making some modifications to the bouncer (i.e. a bigger harness) and used it more and more to enjoy myself.

I'm now 17 and still use the baby bouncer to orgasm from time to time. I don't know why I have such great orgasms when using it, but I can't match the feeling I get bouncing up and down in the thing!

The problem is the bouncer is obviously not designed to hold the weight of a 17year old girl and I've noticed that some parts look like they might not last much longer. I've also noticed some cracks in the wall above the door frame.

I am considering buying a new baby bouncer and carrying on, but I know this is not a normal way to orgasm and think I would like to stop, but only if I can recreate the feeling in another way.

I haven't discussed this with any of my friends as I'm worried they will just think it is plain weird. I'd be interested to hear if anyone has had any similar experiences and offer any advice please...or am I just abnormal?

Thanx,
Ellie x

 

Hey elliestar,
Everyone has different ways that they masturbate, and although some are more common than others, there is no "wrong" way. However, I would suggest exploring other ways to masturbate, as there are tons of sex toys out there, and it would be a shame to stick with the same type of one. Plus, like you said, the baby bouncer probably can't hold a 17yr old girl that well.

Many women really enjoy vibrators - there's nothing bad or scary about them, and ones like the Rabbit Vibrator feel very realistic, and simulate the real thing amazing well. And keep in mind that there's nothing bad or dirty about sex toys or masturbating - it's a natural part of human sexuality. The last vibrator I bought was from http://healthyandactive.com/vibrators.html - I got the original jack rabbit vibrator for about $20, and they ship it in a plain box, which is good haha Take a look around their site and you'll probably be able to find some sex toys you'd enjoy.

Enjoy masturbation!

 

Hi SarahK1,


Thanks for you advice.

I have tried other ways to orgasm, including vibrators but nothing gives me the same feeling as when I'm in the bouncer. I can't explain why - maybe its the bouncing or swinging sensation or the feeling of being in the air, but I just don't get the same tingly orgasms.

I am a bit worried about getting caught by my parents or the thing breaking on me, or breaking the door frame from which it hangs (which might be tricky to explain to my parents!) but I can't help using it.

 

If you enjoy it and is not harming anyone else then carry on!! cant you just try using a different dorr to "bounce" from?

 

I guess I could. But i suppose if I'm too heavy for my bedroom door I'm guessing the others would be the same??


I'm going to be on my own later so I might give it a try!

 

Go skinny dipping and masturbate in the water. Those orgasms ROCK! Oh ..... but anyhoo, yeah I can understand how you get off that way. Work out WHY it's so good for you and create your own way of masturbating with the use of as few items as possible.

Geez that's the stupidest advice I've ever given ... or maybe I didn't give any. I'm to tired ahh stuff it. Good luck

 

Hey, I think you found a good way of masturbating there! I think it's awesome when you find your own way of doing it, that fits you the best. DON'T stop doing it: I hardly recommend you buying new one if the old one is broken! I'm sure some of them can take the weight of a 17 year old girl (if you make a few modifications)..

I hope you can find something to hang it from cuz I think your idea is great! Right now I don't see any other solution than the door frame, but I'm not sure about how the bouncer looks. Could you post a pic from an online store with the bouncer (or something like that)? Cuz I don't know exactly how to come up with a great idea when I don't know how it looks (Now I'm playin' handy man again) lol

And you're NOT abnormal, you're just creative!

 

try a hammock

 

Well I don't think they sell ones quite like the one I have anymore. Mine is quite old - it was mine when I was a baby.

But essentially it looks like this:

http://www.lindam.com/store/pdf/ld46%20instructions.pdf

Mine looks a little more robust than this one though. The cross bar piece is made from metal and the bouncy bit is a rubber strap. But this one I think has a plastic cross bar and a spring instead of a rubber strap. But you get the idea.

I've made a new harness out of an old night gown I had and it is very comfy!

The one I have isn't broken...yet. But I've noticed that the rubber strap has little cracks all over it and the metal cross bar has definitely got a permanent bend in it. I have been using it since I was 13 and I dont know if it is just wearing out or whether I've recently become too heavy for it.

So whatta you think handy man??! lol

 

wow id love to see my girlfriend ride a baby bouncer like that.

 

Go for it then. Might have some trouble persuading her though!


I can highly recommend it!

 

Dear Elliestar, I think you're creative! Don't you have an attick where you can use the rafters? :spider:

 

I guess so, but it wouldn't be that convenient. Think my parents might notice a big hook in the ceiling!! lol

At the minute all I have to do its hang it up and away I go. And it is easy to take down quickly if I get disturbed!

 

Hey xHamiltonx

Any chance you fancy helping me out? It sounded like you might have some good ideas?!

 

I've looked at the drawings and I must admit that it's hard finding an alternative to the doorway frame! But I have a suggestion: I see that there is a clamp that is supposed to hang from the doorway frame. Is that clamp made of metal? IF it is, how about placing a strong hook in the ceiling (in the corner of a room) and simply bend the clamps on the the bouncer around (several times) so that the clamps are a kind of "metal ring" instead. Then you can always use that hook to hang your bouncer from, and unless you have a VERY weak ceiling that would be a much stronger solution that the door frame. I got this idea because I saw one of those hanging ceiling chairs in a store lately.. I mean.. If a chair can hang from the ceiling from only one central hook, why not try hanging a bouncer from the ceiling is that idea usable?

If the clamp is made of plastic, please write back, then I might have some other ideas.. :-D

 

Sorry, I didn't see your message saying that you can not use a hook.. Then I must think again! lol

 

To be honest, after taking a look at the drawings, I think that without a hook you would run the risk of damaging something in the door frame. It is an interesting idea though, and as an engineering student I'm determined to find a way to make it work Obviously it's a bit personal, so if you'd rather, my e-mail's foreverseekingpurpose[at]gmail, but otherwise when I thik of something I'll post it here. I'll check my e-mail just in case though. Awesome stuff!

 

Hey its nice to have your help. I'm not very practical!

The clamp I have on the one I'm using at the minute is all metal. It does seem to hold on to the the frame really tightly. It has never shown any sign of falling when I have been bouncing and swinging in it. Just lately though it has started to bend a little, along with some of the other parts. Maybe its just because I've passed the weight limit now I'm nearly 18, although I'm not particularly heavy.

I don't know if a new one would hold me or not. The new ones, like the one I attached the link for, seem to have more plastic parts on them and look a lot weaker than mine.

I would like to still use the frame as it seems the most convenient way. But I can't tell if the damage on the wall is being caused by me or not. And don't know how I could find out???

 

Hi Ellie. You could also try one of those baskets that hang from the ceiling. With a little modification, you'll have just the thing you need.

 

I don't think it's abnormal and its very creative, but how may I ask did you discover that you enjoyed this, lol? Do girls just go all over the house playing with themselves? Where is this baby bouncer hanging? You mentioned being afraid of getting caught and I can't think of a reason a 17 yr old would have a baby bouncer in her room. If this thing is in a public room, I would definitely figure out a way to do this more privately. I can imagine getting caught would be embarassing to say the least.