Being with someone doesn't mean you stop feeling attracted by other women, in fact, why should it dissapear, the fact that we are in a relationship doesnt decrease our libido, i think it is a matter and a subject of trust and commitment more than physics and atractions... When there is love, and it is a pure feeling, theres no room in your mind to be in troubles waters looking for something that may break that lovely feeling...
An old acquaintance of mine would say: get hungry elsewhere and go home for steak. Do I notice if a man is attractive? of course. I'm a photographer, and if there's that momentary insanity crush, the pix are better, imo. Do I still think my mate is the ultimate. Yep. even when the artist side of me is thinking something like, "oh, will you comb your hair?"
being sexually open with your lover can lead to a lot of fun and can really strengthen your relationship... you just have to be respectful to their emotions and always put them first. but knowing your partner's desires and being able to share yours can be an amazing thing.
I would have to agree with anyone that said everyone is different when they love. Some still look and think about other people, but will always always love their loved one, and some are completely all eyes on the one they spotted, that they dont notice the hot girls or guys. right now when i seen that movie, and when she said that, i think thats me, im a very sexual person but all of it stopped when i seen this certain guy...it never did before with any other guy. sure i still think when some guy walks past "woah hes hot" but nothing else. I like it lol.
See, it's still new. Give it some time to mature. As it does you will find that you are indeed still attracted to people sexually and you will have to deal with that responsibly. I would suggest that instead of ignoring the notion that it will happen, embrace it and establish some values and whatnot. The young love and all that comes with it only lasts so long. Eventually a step back to the real world comes and you have to be prepared for that. Good luck and congrats on 1 year.
no. i just means your human and can be attracted to other people. the difference is, some people can't say *no* to this attraction and have affairs. attraction isn't neccesarily turned on but if there is an attraction and someone follows through with it, then *yes*they will probably get turned on. btw, russell crow, the actor, really turns me on. when you watch porn and get turned on does it mean you're out of love? when you see a stripper and get turned on does it mean you're out of love with your spouse?
Let me not to the marriage of true minds Admit impediments. Love is not love Which alters when it alteration finds,