Is it necessary to have sex to be happy and to be healthy, mentally and physically? I'm asking because I've only had sex once (real sex, anyways...) and I'm not really interested in it that much. Like, every once in a while I'll get horny and want a girl, then I'll actually try and pick 1 up but it just doesn't seem like its worth the trouble. Should I try harder and see what I'm missing, or should I just continue the way I'm going? I'm content with my life, I have lots of fun, but it does seem like something's missing. The one time I had sex it didn't seem very special at all, personally I like masturbation more because its the quickest and easiest way to get an orgasm. For all those who say its easy for a guy to get off, I've never found that to be the case.
Yes you can have an orgasm from masturbating too, but it doesn't nearly compare to real sex. Personally, I feel sex is necessary because it's a vital part of love, and I don't think anyone can live without love. However, I don't think it's healthy to lust and constantly be looking for sex when you're not getting any. I don't think you should have to search very hard for sex/love, as it should just come naturally and easily. I think once you gain more sexual experience, you will start to enjoy it more. If you are in a relationship, then I would say it is absolutely necessary no doubt about it. It is the ultimate way to show affection for your partner.
Try to think beyond just sex and try to build a quality relationship with a female. It will open up new vistas for you, of which sex is only a part.
I have never met a guy that didn't like or want sex. I remember my best friend talking about it all the time. It was kind of funny he wanted to loose his virginity so bad. I don't understand what the big deal is, I am still a virgin. I guess I won't know until I have sex for the first time. I do agree with Cutted, sex I would imagine is much better, when it is with someone you like and care about.
