Why does this have to happen?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Suib, Jul 10, 2008.

  1. Suib

    Suib Musical Journeyman

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    I finally found someone who I can proudly say i have fallen in love with. People say you can't fall in love at a young age but i say fuck them. My girlfriend and i have been with each other for about 6-7 mo. now and i can not ask for a better person. We are literally perfect for each other in every way.

    I felt myself fall in love with her. We snuck out and met each other one night at a baseball feild about halfway between our houses. It was 2:00 AM and we went to the back of the feild to fuck. We stayed there until 6 just being with each other and having a good time under the stars. It was like waking up and seeing the world for the first time. I had fallen in love.

    And now, she has 4 months to live. Her kidneys are failing her and the doctors can't do anything to help her. She had one kidney taken out in February of this year, and now the other one is doing the same thing.

    It figures, the one person i fall compleatly in love with has to die on me. Does everyone not deserve a lifetime? There cannot possibly be any god who would allow this to happen.

    I don't know what I'm going to do.
     
  2. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    This sounds like a Lifetime movie.

    There are kidney transplants....if you can't find a donor through the hospital buy one on the black market. Now that's love.
     
  3. Suib

    Suib Musical Journeyman

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    I don't exactly know the reason, but a transplant isn't possible in this situation. The doctors would have put her on the list if it was.
     
  4. goodvibes83

    goodvibes83 Senior Member

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    damn man...I'm sorry...dude you just gotta love her while she's here, send positive energy her way, and support her. Even if she dies you will always have that love as will she
     
  5. Frieden

    Frieden Senior Member

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    I concur.
     
  6. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    Dude thats shitty, sorry to hear that.
     
  7. BraveSirRubin

    BraveSirRubin Members

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    It probably happened because God hates you and your girlfriend.

    Seriously though... stop acting like a selfish kid. This has nothing to do with you. Don't start feeling sorry for yourself. Be a man.

    Go and be next to her and comfort her instead.
     
  8. Suib

    Suib Musical Journeyman

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    Fuck your right...
     
  9. silverhippy

    silverhippy Comfortably Numb

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    Jeez this is sad as hell. I feel for you man. Why won't a transplant work ? Be strong.

    Peace
     
  10. goodvibes83

    goodvibes83 Senior Member

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    its kind of like the book (read it for school, don't judge me) A Walk to Remember ( I guess there was a movie too) but similar things man...you gotta love, never stop loving
     
  11. jerry420

    jerry420 Doctor of everything Lifetime Supporter

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    thats terrible:(
    all you can do is love her...be there for her, and make sure she truely LIVES for the next few months...
     
  12. redyelruc

    redyelruc The Yard Man

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    Fuck. Well, I'm sorry that this is happening to your girl and subsequently to you. But life is full of ups and downs and without sounding corny, at least she had a chance to experience love in her short life.

    Forget about the future and enjoy your time together.
     
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