i'm preparing for the ultimate

so there's a girl i know and im very interested in a long term relationship with her but the thing is she wants to do me before we date and she said i have to be good at it before we progress further. im fairly confident im good but she's very experienced and im sure she has high standards. i want to slam dunk it obviously, and i know everyone's different, but are there any moves, any advice, etc. i can take to help me out?

im prepared to do basically anything. i want info on what to say, eating out, what positions, what movements i should make, etc.

 

I honestly don't think she is worth it if she judges you by your ability to give good sex. Good sex is learned, it doesn't just become good.

 

i just think she wants someone whos good if shes going to commit, but regardless i want to be good regardless of whether she's gonna be with me

 

Why don't you ask her what she likes and what her turn ons are.

 

Sophie is right... ask her what her turn ons are... I mean like what standard does she have... if your not good in bed but a great guy... forget it ... I dunno but that seems kinda harsh ...

 

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i know that, youre all missing the point. i want the competitive advantage. something creative i hadnt thought of. i know its different for everybody, i know i cant really learn from someone telling me, but certainly there are good techniques i havent thought of.

 

She sounds like a ball buster to me. I'd bail.

 

see if she likes it rough? that's a nice spark to sex. like hair pulling, and biting. if you do any of that though, make sure she is into it. you might freak her out.

one thing to be sure of: do not put "good sex" on a pedestal. you might get nervous and she'll know. but also keep in mind: if you're any good at sex, then she'll be in a relationship with your sex, not you.

 

I would not go into a relationship so uneven in the balance of power. If I were you, I'd tell her you have higher standards. A relationship that starts like this will likely not last. I'm guessing she knows this, and likes the power trip.

 

I'l turn her down. Get the sex first then turn her down.

 

it's all about the tongue. save the cock for when the tongue has done its work.

 

haha i think i gave the wrong impression, she was kind of joking. she says high pressure things a lot and then shes like dont worry im not really meaning it like that.

 

good sex with one person may be terrible sex to the other. so ask her what she likes and that kind of stuff, then try to make it into something special and personal so she knows you care enough to fuck her with compassion but honestly she sounds like a bitch for saying that.

 

well, at least she has a sense of humor. so she kids around, but you do know sex is important to her. i wouldn't worry much. you have the right attitude, and she can always teach you what she likes.

 

OMG its Lady of the Freaks !!

 

you i'm not so optimistic about.

 

Oh, I am glad she was just kidding. I think being taught to have good sex, it really fun. I like to learn new things, I am a virgin and I want my first experience to be as enjoyable for him as it is for me. I want to learn everything I can about sex before I start having sex. I also want to have someone special. I wouldn't worry so much about the sex. If she really likes you she will understand if you aren't that great in bed.

 

chortle.

 

a sure fire move, take your regular missionary, take her right keg over your left shoulde. Im right handed so i use my left arm to hold myself u. Then thrust and use your right hand to rub the clit. U can really rub harder and harder, whilst the penetration is still good. I have never failed with this move. Great because for me to orgasm or even enjoy it, i have to know she is!