I'm not that outgoing around girls, and not that experienced with anything, this is kinda awkward, but how do you know a girl wants to "make out" with you, like what signs does she give? And whats a good time to make a move on her?
You gotta feel it. Girls want to make out just as much as boys do, I think. You just have to pick the right moment for the first time, make it romantic, ya know? Then when you're comfortable making out with a certain girl you can make it a more casual laid back thing.
You better take her on dates first. Spend some money on her. After a few dates see if you can kiss her good night. If she won't let you, keep dating her if you like each other, but be reluctant to try again for awhile. Don't even mention sex unless she obviously enjoys the preliminaries. There are a lot of jerks who put the moves on a girl too quickly. She will like knowing that you are not one of them. Don't be afraid of being shy. A lot of girls see shyness as a sigh of respect. If she takes the initiative in holding hands, that is a good sign, but it still doesn't mean she wants to have sex.
i mean, we arent going out yet, just friends, but she likes me and I kind of like her. You know? Like what would I do to make an iniate first move on her?
lol I kiss the girl goodnight even on the first date. Don't be afraid to kiss her at all, ask for the first time though. Just be like "can I have a kiss goodnight?" Let the natural pace of the relationship take over. If you feel pressured then don't do it.
I mean its not like we are dating, we are just really good friends, and I know she likes me and probably wants me, i just don't know what to do, theyre normally the ones making moves on me, so I'm not that experienced, we just hang out, no dates or anything like that.
just look into her eyes, if she says "what" then no go, but if she just stares back then you can move in. bow chicka bow wow lol jk
Aww thats so cute, If I saw a guy looking at me and I wanted to make out with him, Id flash him and smile and keep on giggling (just happens) be sure to flirt alot but down bring it on so hard, talk to her, ask her what she does for fun, look into her eyes and touch her hand or arm every now and then.
Like if she moves in real close to you, or you lean in close with your face and she doesnt edge back.. If she touches you, or you touch her, and you both feel comfortable.. It depends on where too, because I dont think you guys would bust out a make out session at walmart.
Do it at one of your homes watching a movie on the couch. It's comfortable, the lights are off, there's something playing so you don't have to have a constant conversation, since you're at home you can talk all you want, and you can pick a romantic movie to play.
Or a funny movie, when there isnt a laughing moment going on, you can look at her and smile... I love moments like this aaaaah
The movie theater sucks for a date just so you know, cause you can't talk which should be what you want to do.
I totally would. But with my first girlfriend we used to make out in the middle of the quad at school everyday. So I guess I was trained that way. It's actually caused me problems with recent relationships because most girls aren't that open.
lol Im open like that haha but if your serious, no walmart sessions. If you are random, go secretly into the clothing dept. and pretend you have to tell her a secret. If its a fling smack her ass and ask if she enjoys playing with joysticks.
Take her to a restaurant and pick up the tab. That qualifies as a full fledged date. It also gives you the chance to talk to her and find out if you have much in common. Friendships are based on common interests and shared values. If she looks at you a lot and smiles at you and says "Hi," when you meet each other she likes you. She might have a crush on you. Don't be in such a hurry to get physical but respond to her advances. Do you share a class? Arrange to get together to study for your class.
okay man, I just found this thread and hope it's not to late to throw in my two cents. the best enviornment for making out is def. the movies and a great idea for a first date is dinner and a movie a bit cleche but really, there is not too much else to do. joke around with the girl, make her feel comfortable and as mentioned before, make a move, touch her hand or move in close. and keep making glances at her during the movie. and you'll know when the time is right when both your eyes meet. Once you've done it once, you've done it a million times easy stuff man, dont be nervous. hoe that heled
