I don't understand aquarians from a quiet gemini

its funny because i know two aquarious girls at my workplace, both have me bafled.


I checked into it one of them has her venus conjunct my sun.

What does it mean exactly when an older aquarian 2 yrs older then you tells you i consider you a friend??? Asks you to spend time with them and them for help . But you refuse to go all the way, but that aquarian will countinue "knocking on the door" for assistance, you then refuse once again, but she leaves the door open for you to talk whenever she see's you.???


while a younger aquarian does the following over a course of several months first to tease you, then to flirt with you, then to cheer you up, then to talk, then to ask you questions and finaly anlyses everything she see's you do.???
Despite the 3yr age diffrence and the fact that she has a boyfriend and teases most of the workers.


This is the thing i hate when aquarians and gemini's interact, talk about indirectness, neither sign tells the other in plain english what there thinking, the only way to figure out is by guessing the clues left behind.

I'm drawing conclusions, but i need an aquarian to interprete both aquarious girls.

 

I believe the seconed has interest in you (the younger one), not necessarely love but interest. The first one is probably interested too, more so then the seconed.

I'm sooo sorry...if I answer wrong.....but I'm one, and if I'd act like that, I definently want to get signs from you. They probably want you to figure the whole thing out by yourself, and let you make the first move. If you won't make the move, then they'll make it (that is, if you give them enough clues.NOTE: aquarians want friendship first, then they'll judge you, if you match their preferences enough, we're quite picky with love.)

But since you're a Gemini, you've got much,much,MUCH luck. Since Aquarius and Gemini is one of the most compatible mix in the Zodiac. This is a 9/10 I'm talking about!

 

voice what you feel
im female aquarian who does
say what i feel and think to my partner
and this shows him how i am...feel

so tell the girl you like her. how it stands
she may be just alittle distant but needs a responsible
response from you..

as for the other girl well
so you have found a friend with the other girl.
a friend say who messes with your inner child the flirt
someone maybe too young not quite ready to be
calm about love......

at the end of the day you choose
its your heart ..
love n peace from saff

 

Well, the younger one has seen we during my grouchyness, as well as my friendleniess.


I don't know if that did any good???

but when she saw me again i was friendly again, i apologised to everyone for being grouchy and i got a card for one of the employees who was quiting, and i passed it around the store. For other employees to sign.

She read what i wrote "I never thought the day whould come when you whould be leaving, one thing all say it won't be the same with out you"

She then seamed to be paying more attention to me normally she smiles, but she had that grin on her face like she was thinking about something.

I then had my palm pilot open and she read what i had on the screen, i then left but she had that look like she had something on her mind.

 

hehe....that means she's STUDYING you, because she wants to find out if the
writing you gave her had something to do with love, or if it had something to do with 'just friends'. She's being nosey. This is what I meant in my first posts
about 'clues' she thinks it's a 'clue' and wants to make sure of it before she claims something which is wrong, this means you've got her attention and she's looking for more clues too.

Hope this helped

 

Afterwards i said i consider you a freind there, she kept on paying attention

 

Yup, she thinks there's more to find out from there. It's hard to explain, but I believe she's trying to 'read'(in this case listen) between the lines,she already studied you a bit, now she wants to finish her study on you, she thinks you're interesting and wants to know EVERYTHING about you ( I used to do that alot, I choose someone who's interesting, and tried to find out all sorts of stuff about them over a period of months,-just for the heck of it.OK....I admit there was A LITTLE love interest there.). The more an aquarius finds out about someone, the more attached they get. So there's some emotion here that's floating around .

If you like her, give her another week or so (to make sure.You need a little studieng too.Just to make sure... ). If she continues, tell her that you're interested.That is, if you ARE interested.See, aquarians always need to know everything about their partner, we're very picky when it comes to choose the right mate, we want them to really BE right.That's why we don't have many love relationships in our lives, we want to make sure you stay loyal, trustworthy, and make a great companion.

Hope this helped!
Sorry that it turned out so long....

 

How whould i know when an aquarian is finished there "case book"or finished studying??? and what there finally thought is

i've known her since Feb. 04, thats plenty of time of study. yes i've been somewhat studying her, but i passed it off as typical aquarious behavior

I've know many aquarious girls before, but this one is somewhat diffrent in the sense that most i've known stop drawing attention to me after the first month or two.Not even the occasional hello

While she has brought a continues level of attention to me.

she's stop teasing me and flirting with me, but she still draws attention to me.

Believe it or not i tried to get her to back off,

i told someone she's a tease and a flirt, hoping she whould stop and leave me alone. She stoped teasing but like i said she still talks with me and draws attention to me when ever i'm around.

i thought she whould have backed off but she didn't? thats partly what i ment when i said she has seen my grouchy side.

 

That means it's slowly dieng down. You probably made her feal unconfortable when saying that. She'll probably give up hope soon. Aquarians, if they're really into you, develop love after about 3 weeks. Any other emotion, that doesn't hold on as long, is just a crush.

lol...this story reminds me of a Gemini who chased me a whole year (it's the other way around!!), but I didn't want him.I was already in love with another guy (who also was a Gemini... ).I wish I would've know about these forums back then.hehe ^^;

 

In that case will she stop because what i want is either

a)You mean it,
b)Back off if you don't want to

Frankly what i want is if she doesn't have a crush on me, stop don't draw any attention to me just stop.

for example
When i was comming in to work i stoped by to get my picture devloped, the first thing she did was open up the evelope and have a look at them.

either your intrested in me, or stop don't even be nossey towards me.

I mean if she has intentions but doesn't mean it, why doesn't she stop altogether, i mean don't be nosey around me.

I whould perfer her to stop altogether or rally get into it.

When i mean stop, i mean stop like we never met before.

by the way i called her a flirt and a tease several months ago and i said i consider you a freind the last time i saw her

right know i'm close to quiting, before doing so she has me in the back of my mind, she's somewhat why i'm still there.

If she doesn't have intrest in me, i'm gone no chasing what so ever.

but no i think i know what your talking about there was another aquarious girl i know that was all frisky, i didn't rally care.

Until the next months she stoped, no hello's.

 

Like I said...her feelings were love, not just crush. She wants to make it obvious but not obvious on the same time...you know?(that one was confusing...right?:& ). In other words....-she wants you to make the first move.....otherwise she'll lose intrest. Yes, we aquarians are confusing
creatures . Although many aquarians are outgoing (that would be the Uranus ruled ones, the saturn born are the shy ones), they're mostly still very shy in emotional situations... since they don't want the one they adore to think wrong of them.

My suggestion is: if you want to give the relationship a try,-ask her out . If you don't,-ignore her annoyence, her attempts, like I said, are already dieng down a bit, so she'll give it up petty soon, and do her best to find another guy.Of coarse, as long as she doesn't find another one...
she'll accept you anytime, because aquarians don't lose interest fast if they're in love.She'd be really happy aboout it too, that her feelings were returned even after she gave up.

The other aquarius obviously just had some infatuation with you, just a crush.Her interest's for you already went bye-bye.

hope this helped a bit.
....eventhough I'm terrible in explaining stuff...

 

Actually the older auqrious i metioned said to me "you said you wanted to do something some time and then we exchanged numbers".

I went on sorta a date with the older aquarious, found she wasn't what i was looking for and in a way where friends. I didn't tell her but she got the idea.

what i want with the younger aquarious is to become friends and get to know her better as she will get to know me better as well.

But as i said she already had a boyfriend so why whould she even attempt to find another one???unless she's unsatisfied with him.

Besides she draws attention to particular employees, this includes me heck she even gave one of the managers she's been friends with a kiss.

so in my mind thats why i'm sorta ignoring her because she has a boyfriend??
why whould she draw intreset in other people then.

I don't want to go all the way that's why, i rather stick around as friends ,my rissing sign is on the cusp of aquarious/capircorn and i do like the freedom of independance.

My sister is to attached to her boyfriend and her boyfriend is to attached to her, i hate when that happens where theres no freedom what so ever.

her venus and my sun are both conjunct at 21
but planet placement is diffrent.

her venus is in pisces at 21 while my sun is in gemini at 21.

 

If she already has a guy she most likely sees you as a great friend. I thought she didn't have one, since you didn't mention it. Okay...forget the thing I said about asking her out! , wait 'till she dumps him or something...if she still pays attention after she dumped him ( if she WILL dump him that is...) for longer then 3 weeks...-ask her out. Aquarians need time to get out of a relationship, I've never had a boyfriend before ...so I can't help you much on the 'getting out of a relationship' part (most aquarians don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend till they're older then 16, maybe even 20! because they're extremely careful of whom to choose.).

I hoped my little info helped,
I'm so sorry for not knowing the answer for the 'dumping' part.....
good luck!

 

~Listen up y'all...Maybe she was flirting,being playful & wanting to be 'friends' because she liked you & felt 'safe' in the 'friendship' mode. When it got sticky,maybe it didn't feel 'safe' anymore.(?) Lots of Friendships grow into loving,caring relationships!That's if you want it to & aren't just out for a piece of ass. If it's at your job,I'd remain cordial,it's not worth losing your income over! ~maybe they like it when you blush! ~ ~Thanks, I'm done!~

 

I am also an Aquarius, and I say what I feel, but my Gemini dad, and friends of various signs never think I am serious. They always read something more into what I say. As for clues, try and see what happens if you just take them at their word, that what they are saying is exactly what they mean, no less, no more.

 

I agree with Blackguard. Aquarians usually say what they mean, - if they say anything at all regarding these topics.

 

She anlysing me right now,