I met a man that i love tonight

Thank God. Was that supposed to be an insult?

 

hey! *cries*

 

I hate judgemental pussies

 

Well anyway, this thread has gone to shit, what shall we argue about now? I am about to make a thread and go on a binge, I need ideas.

 

heh ya I know.

 

Heh..........they are totally missing out eh?

 

gonna have to say hell yeah, baby

I am really going to bed now. Hee hee

 

Yea, ya really need to, you need the rest sweety.

 

So you met a man that you acted like a ho with and he didn't rape you so you love him? Whoa, those are some low-ass standards. Your husband must be proud, I feel bad for him.

 

I don't know you, and you don't know me and judging from your post count your new, just wanted to let you know since making that post above, I like you already.

 

there is a lot of hostility in this thread. but the way i see it. if thats what makes you happy than go for it. sure, its a natural feeling to want to be with another man/woman if your married. but thats all your choice. go with whatever your heart tells you do. if your marrige isnt perfect, you can either work on fixing it, or give up on it. but you did make a solemn vow to this man. its your choice and nobody else should try and tell you how to live your life. go with what you think is right and not what some stranger tells you do. you know the answer to what you should do. just look further inside yourself for answers and you know will do the right thing

 

I've been here a few months. I visit these forums infreqently and I probably shouldn't at all because most every thread I read annoys me. This thread for instance, how truly pitiful.
Everyone comes to this girl's defense, but it is only to bolster their own ego's. Trying to out-do each other compassionwise. Do they realise what they are encouraging? Unfaithfulness, with a stranger no less. The girl apparently has a drinking problem, but just encourage it....
Sometimes being nice is not the solution. She put herself in a position to be raped you morons. If I knew her and cared about her, I would be bitching her out, not saying- oh, what a sweet guy!

 

"It's in the way you use it" - Eric Clapton

 

I would have fucked you... twice

 

I am probably going to get a lot of shit for this but I am going to comment.

Trish, your married. Does Dan sleep around with other women? If he does and your both okay with it than that's your marriage.

You could of gotten raped, beaten. Why are you going off with strange men in the middle of the night? Do you subconciously want something bad to happen to you? You don't have to answer that but maybe think about it.

I do not like to judge. I try my hardest not to however when I read stuff like this I can't help but think a situation like this is wrong. Your married going off in the middle of the night with strange drunk men. Where is your husband?

Trish, I love you. I wish you would go get help for your drinking. Something bad is going to happen and it might not be able to get fixed.

Please talk to someone about getting some help.

 

I agree with peanuts here. Unless you are in an open relationship and your husbands knows what is going on, that's really horrible. I mean, don't get me wrong because I think you're a great person but I had an ex that cheated on me a lot and it fucking sux. Whatever problems you have with your husband isn't reason to go sleep with other people. If you can't work things out, leave him. I mean, if he was the one here writing about some chic he was out getting it on with while he was drunk, I doubt that as many of you people would be as compassionate towards him.

This isn't against you, interval, I just don't agree with what you're doing.

 

Sorry Trish, I have to agree with Peanuts and moonshyne as well..
If you want to meet new people and mess around, you should really end it with Dan..And dont mean to sound like a mom but meeting and giving rides to strange man, isnt a great idea and definitely not a safe one...

 

Did you have a measuring tape ready to check if he did not lie about his size?

 

I know I hardly know you, but I read this and was concerned for your safety... Please don't take this offensively! The world is full of idiots and assholes, and we can never who's what upon first meeting him. I don't know about you, but I've known people for months, even years, and found out they were creeps in ways I couldn't even imagine... Like my ex's brother, who I was left alone with repeatedly over the course of our relationship, turned out to be a rapist, they had DNA evidence and everything.

Perhaps you should consider ending your marriage, unless you can find a reason to work it out and save it. If you choose to save it, unless your hubby is cool with an open relationship, perhaps you both could talk to a marriage councellor to address the issue regarding your desire for other men.

Please be safe, in all that you do. I'd hate to hear about something happening to you... You are your most valuable posession.

 

actually, dan and i DO pretty much have an open relationship...being that if we telll each other stuff and agree, it is okay.

and dreamweaver...fuck you!!! you dont know what dan has done to me and how glad i am that nothing happened last night. you're a fucking asshole.

and yes, i know what i did last night wasnt safe. i dont plan on doing anything like that again and all i was trying to say in this thread was that something almost happened to the guy said he couldnt cause i was drunk and i was happy and actually respected him. i didnt mean i actually loved me. just that i thought that was really cool.

however, i could tell dan about it right now and it would be fine.... as for what i would think about dan doing whatever? if it made him happy and he wasnt gonna leave me... id be all for it.

and once again, fuck you dreamweaver..fucking crackhead.