i dont know many bisexual guys in my circle of people i know and i would liek to chat with more bisexual men and heer thaire expierences so tell me about urself boys.
would u liek it if some one was in a relationship with u and u loved them and they went off to war and u were all worried about them all the wile thaire cheeting on u
I don't think i would be worried about them i would just dump them and its over move on - simple (it sounds).
I'm the wife. I've just found this and you're right. I'm heart sickened. Right now my hands are shaking so badly I can't type. What should I do. Oh God please help me.
Don't get me wrong. I love my husband. I can't throw away 14 years. AND, he's been honest. If he hadn't told me about participating on the boards I wouldn't have found the posts - but, I've always tried to accept him. I've supported him, emotionally and financially. And now, I feel I've been cheated on. Waiting until I go out and...well, you've read it. You know. I can't tell anyone. Who can I turn to? Who can I talk to? I'm attractive. I go to the gym four times a week. I'm funny, smart, sexy....well, I guess that doesn't matter. I don't have a cock right? You can't imagine the pain I feel. My heart is just broken. When you love someone so completely, the good, the bad - I've loved him through it all and now, just because I can't fuck him I lose? I completely, wholly, 100% trusted this person. He told me he was a Christian. I didn't go to church. HE DID! Will this ever work? I don't know where to go, who to talk to - I feel like running. And screaming. And in a way finding a man to fuck my brains out. Anyway, I sincerely and honestly appreciate the sympathy. I don't wish anyone here any harm. Just needed an ear. I have no where else to go ya know?
Ok I don't want to sound like an ass here, but i don't think looking at porn constitutes cheating. This guy is in the middle of the desert putting his life on the line, who are we to judge him. Its his business when he tells his wife that he's attracted to men as well as women. And as for the op... I think you, like some guy who tries to start an applause with a slow clap and hopes everyone will back him up, tried to start a flame war against the sergeant in the other thread. But hey, thats just my opinion.
I just found this thread and its off-topic progression from "usedandabused" that is a spinoff of the thread from her husband "MySecret." http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=312814 I did make comments on MySecret's post in that other thread: "OK, I am a bi man who was with a woman for 18 years. I am a very candid and honest person and before we really started getting involved I told her I was bi. Turns out she was very understanding, her fav brother was gay. So, I didn't lie to my wife. Nor did I tell her about the times I went out with the boys - she would rather not know. I am put off by the bi guys who aren't upfront with their significant others. But I understand it. I think most men understand male sexuality and a few women, like my wife do but a lot take judgmental attitude ..." Now, addressing the hurt person who has discovered a betrayal by her husband. I do understand how traumatic this is for you but the ball is now in your court. Throw away a 14 year relationship or try to salvage it. That will now depend on what you can countenance from this betrayal. How important is that act alone and how important is it to now realize this late in the game your husband's discovery of an expanded sexuality? I think there is a need here for some face to face discussion in the presence of a qualified marriage counselor (one with real degrees in the field and not necessarily a minister who will give dogmatic responses). Personally, I think "usedandabused" reaction sort of gives credence to "MySecrets" subterfuge. That was what he was trying to avoid - and yet - he let her know his secret by showing her this discussion. That may have been his way of letting out his secret but we also need to know where he wants to go. There are questions here that need to be addressed: Is he bi or is he going more toward males? Can she accept him being bi and allow him time with the boys? Can she accept his betrayal and lying? Again, you both need to have some serious heart to heart. This is beyond a bunch of opinionated strangers on a forum board. Good Luck to you both.
if he told her he was bi and she was ok with that then i dont see a problem and im srry i even comented at this point i would rather talk about being bisexual and how much fun it is
