I know about that "spell the alphabet" thing, and it's bullshit. Give me better advice. Specifically pertaining to the vagina, not the clit. But any advice is appreciated.
i don't really have an immence amount of experiance but while eating out this one girl I found out that she got a lot more pleasure if my tongue came in perpendicularly instead of parallel with her legs. (just for that one girl) Other than that I'd advise endurance and clit stimulation.
Start out using your whole tongue on all of her vulva and gradually focus on the clit. That's all I know and it seems to work.
You are right the alphabet thing is BS, but the main thing is that women like different styles and its just a case of finding out which style gets your woman off the most.I asked a lesbian friend of mine for advice and what she told me worked really well..... Flick your tongue on the sides of her clit not the top and start gently and gradually increase speed and firmness. Some women have one side of the clit that is more sensetive than the other (watch them playing with themselves to find out which side). Also try laying across them and lapping your tongue across the clit (side to side) rather than being between the legs and lapping up and down
Advice off the internet man ?? Ill answer your question... each girl is different from the next, so you have to discover what each girl likes by: 1) Asking HER (not people onlne) 2) Practice ! Lick her around and acording to her reactions you will discover what she digs !!
Think of it as being like a carton of orange juice. It's not getting the juice out that's the problem - it's getting the flaps to open.
You need to figure out each individual girl, man. Asking us isn't gonna help you with your current steady. For me, I like circular licks along the edges of my clit with the occasional long lick up the centre. Increasing pressure and speed.
put two fingers inside and lick the clit and fuck her with your fingers. alternate between that and just sticking your tongue in and out and licking the clit. lick the clit too much shell get raw. fingers and tongue work very nicely
honestly. you have to like it entirely b4 you can truely be "good" at it. i suggest you try different things and just be adventurtous. things that i like to to do are put my hole face in it. ill us my nose to actually stimulate the clit while i use my tounge on the inside of her vagina and movemy face around and apply alot of pressure. also i like to go down and like the area in between her vagina and anus and also her anus while im rub her clit. these things work for me but im not sure how they would work for you u kno? my suggestion is to to just experiment and use her body language as a way to know if its working or not.
If you have to ask then you haven't had enough practice lol, that's all it takes, try things, be random, grab her thighs when you go down and move your head and tongue in a circular motion, really hard to explain but it works, but it may not work on any woman, as every vagina is completely different and unique.
i really like tongue licks side to side, not up and down with the occasional soft finger inserted. and then eventually get it going harder and faster in and out while still licking my clit.
