So you did a bad thing, you went through your girls messages on her phone and saw some 'conversation' that you didn't like with another guy. Options from my point of view... • I've done a bad thing, but so has she, just ignore it for a bit and continue the regular and amazing sex whilst making myself available until something else comes along. i.e. plan to leave, but not while the gettings good. • End it enitrely, but how could you explain? I'm not supposed to have seen the info and have been sneaky. • Contact the guy and just say, "Look I know it takes two to tango, and I'll have words with her too but just back off"... this could go either way, he'll probably tell her and massive arguement ensues. If anything would drive her towards him. Tricky huh?
1st of all, you didnt do a bad thing by going thru her phone. Dont be one of those bfs who always look thru the phone, but you should have that ability if yall "truly" are bf and gf. Before you get any advice from this forum, i think you should tell us what kind of "conversation" she had. Was it nasty or just a conversation with a guy? Im lost
If she's cheating on you, then what goes around comes around. I would continue having amazing sex, but have a side dish of your own. If she finds out, tell her you know her dirty little secret...
I don't think it's just to say 'what goes around, comes around' whilst you're doing the 'coming around' part. That is up to the universe to deal with. It all boils down to - Do you love her? Do you really want to be with her? Was this conversation too devastating for you to continue seeing her? Cuz if it's just sex that you like, then I'd advise engaging into an open relationship. Otherwise, guard your heart and be wise.
