i am sure there are many...i am not one of them. but i didnt waste it on anyone either.. i was in a commited relationship. still am.. just wish i had saved it for the person i am with now.
Yah. I am too. I'm 18, and thus fairly sexually frustrated and often I get very lonely... but I'm not ashamed, I'm happy I'm a virgin. Looking back, I could have been one of the first in my immediate group of friends, but damn I wouldn't have been happy with my choice at all. The girls were pretty, but it wouldn't have meant a damn. So now I'm one of the last of my friends.... it's annoying when I'm the only one in a conversation who doesn't have a story, or when douche-bags feel the need to rub it in my face... but ah well. The right girl needs to be found first.
That's totally awesome that you're still a virgin. Don't feel one bit embarassed about it either. That's fantastic. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 to my one and only love, and now I'm married to him. So okay, we didn't exactly wait until our wedding night, (we were married when I was 20, and he, 24) but still, he's the only one I've ever been with. No regrets. Hugs.
that’s so sweet.. it seems most people are waiting for the right person.. I am not saying I have to be in love with that person.. more less comfortable with that person and attractive to him.....
Waiting for the right person, I personally think that's the ebst way to go about it. It would just make it all that much more memorable!
Its nice that so many people are consenting adults yet still Virgins. These days it feels like its unusual to be a kid and still be a Virgin. I have a male friend who is really embarassed to be still a Virgin at 20 and is worried if he'll ever get to loose his Virginity to another Virgin, but oviously he still has a chance. Then again, I know a 15 year old girl who has the same feelings as all her friends "claim" to have sex, and even though we all tried to tell he that they are probably lying it still hurts her.