What do I have to do to get you to ORGASM ?

What is it that really turns you on, was it the way he kissed you, or a way he licked you, the combination of many things, not just one, I really want to know what it is that really pushes those buttons ?

I generally don't have too much trouble turning a women on but I want to get my partner to a no BS orgasm.

Like I have said in my other post I have only ever been able to get one partner to that mind blowing orgasm that I really want to experience again.

That means we are both saturated in sweat, hair and body and of course the orgasm that rytyhmically contracts and sends me into orbit.

Damit why can't I get there again !!!!

 

Sex in the heat of the sun actually does it for me. The summer is my favorite time for outdoor sex, obviously. There is almost nothing sexier than the feel of our sweat soaked bodies being baked by the noon-day sun as they are rubbing together with my bf pounding away.

My guess as to why you are having trouble is that you are trying too hard. Sometimes it is a combination of events, touches, words, etc. that culminate to that mind-blowing event. You are more than likely to have a better orgasm if you let go and just experience the moment than to try to overstimulate each other. A very large portion of the experience takes place in the mind. Don't hinder it.

 

you spend too much time on the computer?

 

I don't think thats really a problem.

Do women need a bit of fear whilst they are having sex ?

When I say this I don't mean something horrible, I read something awhile back and I wondered if this article I read had any truth in it ?

For example the fear of getting caught ....

What do women think ?

 

There is no "correct" answer to your question.

What turns people on during sex is situational. One day it may be sweet tender love making, and the next its jungle f*cking. I can tell you what gets my motor running, but it works for me, not every woman out there. Sex is definitely a "to each their own" area. So, the only way to know what will please your partner is to ask her. If you are too afraid to ask, just keep trying different things, and hopefully something will click.

 

The "fear of getting caught" is more of a thrill than an actual fear. Do women need it? Not most of the ones I know/have known. It can add some spice to things, but rarely is it required.

 

Sometimes I need "fear"... I fear for me is him hurting me, punching slapping hair pulling. If I am really bad he pulls the hair on top of my head, he knows then that he has full control of me...damn it hurts... That all gets me off and sends me crazy, but him calling me his whore, telling me what he is going to do sends me off even worse.. words and communication I guess are the way to get me going... There are times though that I like him gentle softly breathing on my neck and upper chest area... it is the thought of him almost but not quite touching me that gets me all rigged up...
Sigh...

 

Yesss.
This.
Biting, hair pulling and the like.

 

last really powerful orgasm i had was after a bit of foreplay like spanking and kissing places you cant reach much during sex like on back and stuff, then sex in missionary for around 30mins, then he orgasmed and i said i wasnt sure if i had so he fingered my g-spot and i had a hugee orgasm. try something like that