i recently have been thinking about how my girlfriend and i act in public. when we are around groups of friends or other people we generally keep the hugging, handholding kissing etc. to a minimum...ok we dont really do much at all. when we are together alone it is a completely different story. we both love each other so much but i was wondering what to make of this and was curious as to how other people think the best way is to act around a group of friends
I dont mind PDA, i like showing people my affection for my husband. I want people to know that i am his, and he is mine. When you see two people loving eachother down the street, walking hand in hand or all cuddled up next to the street light, you see them as a whole. You see a couple, instead of two seperate people. Our friends know that we do this and they dont mind, we have a very strong relationship and like to express it, ands that shouldnt be restricted just because your not home alone. Of course ive also given him head on the side of the highway, but thats irrevolent.
i think that you should ask her what action her like faceing others and noone.because this is thing of two people. sometime , you like waht she dont like.finally, porduct a bad result
Ask her how she feels about all of this. Some people just get very awkward about showing affection in public. Me and my girlfriend hardly let go of each other =P
I've always thought that bitter, sex-starved people were the ones that minded PDAs the most. I never thought a little hand-holding, hugging or smooching was that big a deal... Now, if it gets pornographic, or there's a ton of slime and tongue everywhere, that's gross. Nobody needs that kind of show. Keep the heavy breathing for the bedroom. We're not cavemen just running around screwing at the communal campfire...
Heh, no thanks. That's not my idea of fun... But you go ahead, tho! Don't let my obviously American prudish nature stop you.
I don't know, it makes me nervous to show affection in public places. I mean I love to hold hands to hug and to jump into a guys arms. I am a little unsure about kissing though. I guess a little peck or to be held while he stands behind you and wraps his arms around out in public is nice. Or just sitting on a bench cuddling in the cold. This is as far as I would go, but I am not saying that I wouldn't try sex in a public place like say a dressing room in a store. Then again this is not completely public.
It all depends on how much has been drunk! I was one of those people who hated any display of affection between two people.. but then I got a lovely manfriend.. who thought differently. I guess when your single it just seems like a massive 'look what you haven't got!' display and can get you down. So nowadays I like to keep it subtle, just incase there is anyone like me around, silently plotting to set fire to the couples devouring each other in public.
that is the EXACT reason i recently broke up w an ex. I love to show PDA and she didnt. got tired of it and kicked her ass out! HAHA
It all depends, I think. Holding hands and a little kiss isn't gonna send me running for the hills but hands all over me constantly is another matter. It also depends on the situation. No P.D.A. at business functions, for instance and no groping at family dinners. It's all relevant.
My boyfriend and I are always holding hands. And we'll kiss pretty frequently...its just natural for us to kiss. It punctuates our conversations. But we don't make out in public. Unless we're drunk. He does grab me though. And I'll grab his ass...its very sweet. And we never do it in an inappropriate setting, I don't think. We're always touching each other, we can't help it.
I get a bit upset if my bf wont show me affection when we're out, i hate how so many couples dont hold hands or anything i wouldnt like to end up like that. tho i dont like making out or anything in middle of a crowd or being groped inappropriately. my friend only really have to put up with hand holding, kissing and me sitting on him and stuff, were not too bad i dont think.
You got it right man...when around friends and family its not cool at all...in fact its pretty gross, example my brother and his fiance are always groping each other CONSTANTLY in front of everyone, when you are first dating someone and the attraction is there OK fine, but WTF it gets old. Now if you are out and about and you dont know the people around you the who cares...but I do agree
me and my guy usually keep it to a minimum i dont need to be really showy around my friends because i dont want to make it awkward for them and stuff but yea at times fuck that its really about doing whatevers comfortable
