So I just had a very embarrassing moment...

So I was over at my girlfriends house today and she finally had the house to herself. So we decide to finally have sex for our first time. As were making out I get the usual erection that comes with it, but then just before I was about to put a condom on, I relized my boner had lost much of its lust! So I decide to start grind against her to get it back, but I could tell by this point my penis had pretty much lost all its lust. So now I'm worried, almost panicing, about the fact I couldn't get a boner. In the end we didn't even have sex... I felt like such a loser. We just went downstairs and watched TV. Luckily we had a very emotional and intense conversation about personal issues when watching TV, so I don't think she was that disappointed. Well there's my rant. Any other guys ever experience this very embarrassing moment??

 

You got performance anxiety. Relax and keep trying and the problem will disappear.

 

yeah keep trying, it will work itself out just fine, its more normal than you think, are you both virgins? or is it your first time having sex together?

 

Weird, i never had that for my first time and i was completely sober.

 

Dude don't worry, happened to me too, worst thing was my girlfriend was going away! So it was then or nothing for 2 weeks, and so... I was sexless for a fortnight It happens to us all dude, nothing to worry about.

 

The closest thing I've had to this, was after our first fuck, we went for a second, and then I couldn't get it in; kept losing my boner and trying furiously to gain it back (being wrapped in a condom didn't help me here); then after gaining a bit of a hard on, I would try to get it in again. Gave up eventually, tried again - boner raging, still wouldn't work. She was so tight from our first fuck that no matter what, I couldn't get it to fit.

Cutted is right though, the more you relax, the better off you will be.

 

We've both had sex before, but this was OUR first time... and this was the first time this ever happened to me. Yeah I hope I'm more relaxed next time, I did feel like I was under pressure for some reason. Well were going out Thurseday, round 2!

 

Dude, its all in your head. try more foreplay

 

Yea its all in your head, and condoms contain magical anti boner dust on them that makes boners disappear. If sex wasn't such a deliberate act as it is with new couples, then you wouldn't be having an issue.

 

Yeah man... No worries as it happens to the best of us. You could have tried starting from "scratch" again...? GL next time though!