okay so i find it easy to attract girls and to talk to them but when it comes to the kiss, i can't do it. i've only kissed a girl on the lips. i've never french kissed or got off with them and they always seem dissapointed. i don't tell them of my nervous disorder cause they will laugh at me...i don't know what to do! heres what happened a couple of weeks ago: me and this girl were flirting with each other all night that at the end she moved in for a kiss and i couldn't do it so i moved my head away. she didn't talk to me for the rest of the time i walked her home giving me evil looks saying that it's offensive (i don't know about that). at the end of the night i wanted to make it up to her so i moved in for a really nervous kiss, when she moved in i just gave her to pecks on the lips and she said is that all i don't know how to kiss and its affecting my socail life 18 years have taken ther toll, most people my age are having unprotected sex and i can't even kiss CAN YOU HELP ME?? thankyou
Relax. I was rubbish at kissing girls, but once you get there it's fantastic! The best advice I can give is to bite the bullet, take your fears in hand and go for it. Keep this thought in your mind "what's the worst that can happen?". IF she freaks out and really doesn't like the way you kiss, explain to her that she was your first kiss, and ask her how to improve. One of my girlfriends did this with me, and I've never had any complaints since. Good luck.
yeah take it easy its very pleasurable once you go through the first one, and it tickles with your feelings.... by that i mean you dont have to be in love with the person you are kissing but you deffinitelly will enjoy to kiss, its something beautiful to do, its intimate, safe and exciting enough.... as Jack B Nible said, dont be afraid because its your first time, just go with the flow and if the girl discovers you never kissed anyone bfore im pretty sure she will be honored, just like id be ...
Try sucking on their bottom lip. Part their lips with your tounge, move your tounge along their teeth. Just have fun with it. Don't worry so much about it, I am twenty and I have never kissed a guy. It is a really hard thing to overcome.
practice on a girl who isn't very awesome and you wouldn't mind embarassing yourself in front of. a less attractive girl who might be in the same boat as you? that's all I can think of. also, don't think too much about it. and don't rush in and try to get the kiss over with. soft, slow kisses are the best.
I'd be flattered to be someones first kiss. But seeing as I haven't kissed a guy that may not happen.
Some times you just have to do her in tha butt, nam'sayn, that way you want have to have her seeing you fuck her and shit,..... besides it feels so much better anyways! ...............But forreal take a :chillpill: helps me, or some uppers, yeah!
It's ok to be nervous, happens to everyone when they're new at it, your problem is that you're scared. Like the other guy said, you just have to bite the bullet and do it. That's part of the fun, being nervous, but you're letting it affect you too much.
Actually I think you should just get drunk and kiss a girl, that's how most teenagers do it any way. Yu don't have to be drunk, just tipsy enough to hide your insecurities.
