I have tried to have sex with two girls and both times I had the same problems. The foreplay wasn't too long but I was hard both times. After penetration, I immediately felt like this erection wasn't going to last long and it didn't last over a minute or two. It might have been psychological because both times, it was at a party and eventhough the rooms locked fine I was surrounded by friends and I get nervous about shit like that. Also, I was drunk both times. Not wasted, mind you, just a little tipsy. I don't know if those two things mattered or not but I feel like shit right now. Both these things happened only recently. I've never had sex before and masturbation usually doesn't last longer than 3 minutes or so, so I'm worried I might have some more serious problem. Help, advice, experiences? I'll try to sleep with both these girls again sober in total privacy and not try to masturbate for some days prior to the intercourse.
That might just do it. I envy your youth, when you could get and keep a boner under adverse circumstances, but there are limits. And, yes the anxiety of failure could also be a problem. Have a fall-back plan for when an erection is waning. Go to more foreplay, cunnilingus is always a good diversion. You can probably bring her to orgasm a couple times with your mouth and fingers (which sometimes excites a guy more).
Youth, as they say, is certainly wasted on the young - especially when it comes to sexual activity. Whereas the hormones are at their peak for physical capacity, the experience, which accounts for 90% of sexual appreciation is still lacking. One of the first things to learn is that although alcohol may give you the impression that you are invincible & that when under its influence that you are the answer to every woman's prayer sexually it is, in fact, totally the opposite. Alcohol is notorious for affecting the ability to maintain an erection - so much so that the phrase "Brewer's Droop" is a well known one (in the UK, anyway). Although alcohol may well remove your inhibitions, it certainly doesn't improve your performance. If you are at a party where you consider there is a good chance of ending up in the sack, keep to the alcohol free drinks.
Yup! You had a double whammy, kid. What the hell you carry on at parties for. At parties you're supposed to have whores who know how to get you back up, when you're down so to to speak. You now have a third problem - the fear of it happening again. Have quiet sex with a woman who 'knows' and explain your lack of experience. Also tell her of your fear of not performing. Then go at it slow, plenty of lickin and kissin parts other than mouth. Pricks can handle long use, but they gotta be enjoying themselves. When you finally get round to dipping your wick with you face leaking pussy juice, you'll be fine. Then go back to your little girls, stick your tongue out at them, snmile and go looking for another experienced woman. And swear off party fucks - that's for sophomores!
