friendship between heterosexual male and female

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Penny, Jul 22, 2008.

  1. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    of course it's possible; fat women need some sort of attention too afterall...
     
  2. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    being grossly undersexed makes it pretty hard too...
     
  3. ItsRiver

    ItsRiver Member

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    Fat chicks need love, too.


    They just need to pay for it.

    haha jk

    But chicks and dicks strictly platonic? It can happen. 4 of my closest friends are guys, one is married and the other 3 are pretty much my brother's from another mother. And one of them is gay. So that rules him out. But I have never hooked up with the other two in all the years I've known them so, yeah I think it's possible. Just from a subjective perspective anyway.
     
  4. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    not their choice i'm sure...
     
  5. RELAYER

    RELAYER mādhyamaka

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    ItsRiver, every perspective is subjective. Of course besides mine, which is pure objective fact. True story
     
  6. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    Penny, I hope you don't mean the guys that befriend you as a secret plot to get into your pants.

    Guys like that deserve the guillotine. Grow some balls!

    P.S. The answer is: Yes. It's totally possible.
     
  7. Wild Mountain Dave

    Wild Mountain Dave Rainbow

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    sounds ever so familiar.
     
  8. BraveSirRubin

    BraveSirRubin Members

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    Not really. Actually, not at all.

    Why do you think girls have such an easy time being friends with gay guys?

    I'd imagine that a girl would also have a much easier time being friends with someone who doesn't have sex, is a virgin, or is part of the castrati.
     
  9. Wild Mountain Dave

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    I think Guys and girls can hang out together without fuckin. I will also say that odds are they will fuck at some point.
     
  10. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    Yes, they can be friends.
    In fact, most of my friends are guys.
    And its working out just fine.
    Nothing romantic, nothing sexual, we're just friends :)
     
  11. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    I'm sure some of you already know the story:

    Girl. Platonic friend. 7 years. Not a touch. I wasn't attracted. Nor was she. Halloween. The most intense sex of our lives. Love. Hate.

    The rest is history.
     
  12. Wild Mountain Dave

    Wild Mountain Dave Rainbow

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    exactly what I'm sayin. It's very likely going to happen. Doesnt mean you fall in love or "live happily ever after" but sex will happen. Try throwing any other animal out there with the same cicumstances and see if they dont fuck.
     
  13. mitten_kitten

    mitten_kitten daisymae

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    I think there is probably always going to be a bit of sexual tension, on one side or the other, unless people have significant others...

    I have a guy friend I've known all my life (parents are best friends) and I have no sexual interest in him at all. But I know he has always been interested. We're still friends.
     
  14. Wild Mountain Dave

    Wild Mountain Dave Rainbow

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    It would be my guess that you rearely hang out together alone. You probbaly once did but he's nowhere near an alpha so the sexual attraction/need never developed.
    Close???
     
  15. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    I don't think we ever know enough about ourselves to really know who we are attracted to or why.

    We try to rationalize stuff with "she's not my type" kind of things.

    Or "we are too different."

    Or "it would never work out."

    Or "oh gosh - never!"

    Or "I can't! We are just friends."

    Or "I have someone already."

    Or "What would people think?"

    Pff. We are more mysterious than we give ourselves credit for.

    P.S. Not to say that you can't establish relationship boundaries...for the most part.
     
  16. Wild Mountain Dave

    Wild Mountain Dave Rainbow

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    There was an ASS ugly girl that used to work at a 7-11 that I just wanted to absolutely pound the hell out of. To this day I think of her. I only ran into her a couple times but still remember her. I cant say why at all.
     
  17. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    My point exactly.

    I've had the hots for some skanks myself.
     
  18. Wild Mountain Dave

    Wild Mountain Dave Rainbow

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    KC thinks she had a particular hormone that I could sense. Had to be something.
     
  19. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    Oh yeah.

    There is so much going on in a subconscious biological level.

    It's useless to dissect it.
     
  20. RELAYER

    RELAYER mādhyamaka

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    Fragments of the totality man, fragments I tell's ya
     
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