Hating Someone.

Have you ever really hated someone to the extent that you thought about ways you could possibly murder them and get away with it?

Is it normal?

 

Yeah it is, coz you wont get to the point to murder. I have always felt hardcorly unpleasant feelings towards my mothers boyfriend. Hes a motherfucking idiot, tottaly brain dead dickshit. But what can i do about it- nothing, so i ignore it and live it be.
i dont have much contact with him anymore.

 

Yes, I have thought of this, one person in particular.

I would never do it.

It is more fun to piss someone off for years into the future, then to kill them and free them of their earthly pain and worries.

 

It's a normal way of dealing with unvoiced anger. Fantasy is healthy.

 

Yes. Fantasising about murdering or hurting someone you really hate is quite a normal and healthy way of dealing with your feelings. There is nothing wrong with it until you either do it, or it begins to affect your own life.

In my case, the hatred I had was for the guy who my girlfriend (at the time) cheated with. He then punctuated her cheating on me by giving me a good kicking in a car park one night.

I loathed him and dreamed about killing him for months, and it got in the way of my ability to have normal relationships with other friends and family because I was so bitter (and quite spiteful.). In the end I realised I was being pretty fucking stupid, wasting my life dreaming about hurting someone who probably had forgotten all about me months ago, and when I realised that, it was easy to drop and move on with my life.

So, the feelings are quite normal, and in one sense, they're quite healthy, but dont let yourself get consumed by them, because that just let the fuckers who hurt you win again.

 

I havent thought about it, but i guess seeing the replies on here it is.

 

no your a horrible person

 

Yeah i want to kill some people bad but i feel im the only one who realizes that death is the ultimate freedom so torturing them is infinitly better but i dont have the time...for now.

 

Never actually, when I am most angry I just want to beat the shit out of them.

 

No, I Never hated someone to that degree, takes too much time and emotion.. I usually don't care for them and just go on about my daily life not being consumed with it...

As for is it normal, sure, I guess, everyone is different...

 

Yes, I hate lots and lots of people.
A long time ago I formulated my ultimate death for those I hate.
Now whenever I Hate someone I can instantly have them in the predicament I have envisaged.
Is it normal ?
Perhaps not to think about what I'm thinking about when I hate people.
But hating people is pretty normal.

 

I hate people who dont hate people who hate people who never hate people who hate those who hate that never hate.

 

I hate when people do that.

 

Haha...

I wonder if people hate me to a degree that they wish me a painful demise.. I am sure of it...

I don't, meh, why... I just laugh at them...Laughing at people is fun...

 

If you hate someone it means you are spending to much time thinking about them. Most of the time that is what they want. So why give them what they want ? Just make a voodoo doll of the person you hate and have your way with it.

Peace

 

So, I make a voodoo doll and practice my dark arts on somebody I should not be giving too much time for. Seems like a waste of my time.

 

puh-lease...You know you perform sex acts on those "voodoo dolls"..sodomy to the tenth degree...

 

Ok. Just my way of getting even. sodomize those you hate. Wait maybe I need to check out my sex life. I do like to torture these dolls too. Ok another part of sex to me. I should have kept quiet.

Peace

 

dumb, pointless, and self destructive. and no, i don't think its 'normal' in general, though, if what people tell each other is to be believed, not unusual in the dominant culture i'm surrounded by in the u.s.

that doesn't mean i have infinite patience with people either, nor even very much at all, but it is with how they screw things up for themselves by screwing things up for each other that i find annoying and that i have very little patience with.

and most of the people who do call their doing so 'conservative'. another complete illogical mindboggle.

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Never..I just put some distance between myself and the person i am uncomfortable with , that way nothing bad can happen and no hatefull words can be said.
Hate breeds hate.