My guy and I have been doing more and more oral on each other. I really want him to cum in my mouth, but he says that the head gets to sensitive for my mouth after a while (he's uncircumsized). He doesn't particularly enjoy having both hand and mouth on him, so I'm kindof out of ideas right now. Any suggestions?
im uncircumsized and my head is really sensitive too. i get off when girl throw it down their throat n try to swallow, normally they end up gaggin but it feels so good. the lymphnodes on tyour dick...aaaaaaaaa..............deep throat him and dont use your hand
I think I got a little better advice for you. Basically running tongue or finger on the head of the penis is really painful. The skin on the tip of the dick is protecting it from all kinds of stuff. The head doesnt dry out after time and remains more sensitive. Anyways, as far as making it cum basically the part that's most ergenous is the part that's on the bottom of the shaft right before the head starts. So focus your sucking and your playing on that part, that's what is going ot make him cum. If you really like to lick and tease, lick the balls and the shaft but just not the head, but doing that is not going to make me cum... it will feel nice but what will bring him to orgasm is feeling your tongue on the part that I talked about earlier and a kind gently sucking. HOpe that helps you'll make him cum in no time.... just had to know that. Greg
Yeah, get a new fucking boyfriend who's not so goddamned finicky! Jesus Christ! I NEVER gave a girl such a hard time about pleasing me! I'm EASY to please! What the fuck is the problem with some guys?!? :$ "Waahh!! It's too sensitive! I don't like the hand and mouth together! Waaahhhh!!" Gimme a fucking break. You got a loser of a boyfriend. Get another one who's into all kinds of stuff and doesn't have such baby-assed hangups! Do I sound harsh? It's 'cause I don't have a girlfriend, and I keep hearing about these guys who DO have girlfriends who DO want to do stuff with them, all kinky and sexual and the guys are such motherfuckin' PANSIES about it -- like YOUR guy! -Jeffrey
Dude, NONE of this is even near to universally true as you imply it to be. What is this shit about "the skin on the tip of the dick is protecting... head doesn't dry out"??! Dude, what are you talking about? The part you're talking about "on the bottom of the shaft right before the head starts" is called the "frenulum." Maybe you should get a book on this stuff. The idea that "that's what is going to make him cum" is just absurd. People reach orgasm, typically, through RHYTHMIC STIMULATION. It's not about much more than that. And that can be done in ways besides just licking and sucking the frenulum, dude. When guys masturbate, do you think they just tickle their frenulum until they orgasm? One good way that I can orgasm from a blowjob is when her lips are pursed pretty tightly around the shaft and she moves her mouth up and down, in a mouth-fucking motion. It has little or nothing to do with licking "on the bottom of the shaft right before the head starts," trust me. -Jeffrey
jeff, chill... I was asking for sexual advice, not relationship advice. we met on lavalife, if that helps ya find a chickie for yourself Besides, I'm equally finicky about what makes me cum during oral... not to say that everything else doesn't feel good, but only a handful of moves actually make me orgasm.
Yo I got your point as far as the perfect terminalogy I am not down with it. I dont really care to get a dictionary for living in france my level of english is quite adequate. I told her what does indeed make me cum and I actually had this conversation with a couple girls about the subject of giving head to circumsize verus not. I respect your opinion, but I gave her my honnest advice she will do whatever she wants with it, and you can do the same if you wish to give head... The only dick I have played with is my own and I am pretty good at making it cum... or maybe you can teach me what I like... Greg
What? You have a strange guy indeed! I must ask what is this guys age? Are you guys just more less inexperienced? That's what it sounds like. when giving a blow job,in order to make it good, you(the one giving) must enjoy every minute of it.If your Goooooooood,you can have your guy cum at will. Also different guys like it different ways,just play around until you get a feel of what he really likes and have fun with it.The more you get into it,enjoy it,really love doing it,the easier you'll find the peak,but i warn you by enjoying oral sex as much as getting him it,he'll find things you do that blows his mind. Do not be tense,do not only work on one area.Use your tongue,lips,use those muscles! Read some books on making love with your mouth,seems you really aren't quite into it. Do you like it?Are you having other realationship problems?Believe it or not but if a relationship has other problems so will the sex! Good Luck,If this fails honey,he's gay and nothing u can do,lose him!!!
