I have learned how to give myself extremely fantastic multiple MULTIPLE orgasms, like many sets of multiple orgasms (in one sitting) or sometimes one long non-stop orgasm. Does anyone else reading this have this ability? I'd like to find more people who experience this. I know the key in large part is in relaxing; as far as sheer number of orgasms go in one sitting, I'm sure I've had hundreds, but it's definitely safe to say that I can and have had at least many dozens of orgasms. Other times it is one long continuous orgasm, with none or very little pausing during it. This type can last for HOURS, but I usually end it after 45 minutes or so (of straight non-stop climaxing), becoz orgasming for that long without pause takes A LOT of energy, so it's even hard justifying going for longer, lol. Sometimes I have both types, and have the cluster orgasms that turn into one continuous orgasm, or else start of with one long continuous orgasm that morphs into many clusters of orgasms, either way it feels DAMN fine! ;-) I'm pretty much spent after them, but sometimes eating chocolate after extreme multiple orgasms feels really great B-) .
Hmm well my understanding of orgasm is that its one long orgasm, not multiple orgasms. Masters and Johnsons called it the excitement phase, the plateu phase and finally orgasm, followed by the resolution phase. OK so if you orgasm, you've gone through these stages, up to orgasm and then slowly you sink back down to plateau, excitement (as seen here). http://www.getceusnow.com/portal/file/ca_clip_image004.jpg http://www.getceusnow.com/portal/file/humansexuality.htm If you prolong the foreplay or in your case stimuli with your hands, at the plateau stage you will then re-enter orgasm and as long as the stimul is there I think in theory you should be able to hold it there indefinatley ? I don't know myself becasue when I was there, I was in this strange out of body experience (as strange as that may seem) with my partner, and I didn't perceive anything at a conscious level. Its only after some time over a period of 9+ hours that I finally woke up or came out of it. So it could have been minutes or close to an hour ?
I've had around 7 orgasms at one time and the longest duration has been around 45 minutes. The weird thing is that I get an uncontrollable laughter, my old man says he's never had a laugher before, I wonder if anyone else laughs of is that just me?
You may want to read up on Tantra to enhance your love making and experience ultimate intense orgasms... it takes practice, but once there...you'll know it. Feels great for men, but for the ladies... far beyond anything you ever called the best. When practiced, I gave my partner over 25 orgasms in one love making session(she was the type who counts them,actually, she lost count after 25), including many multiples and prolonged orgasms, which continued after doing my thing... The key is learning how to raise energy, and to manipulate it to flow through both of your bodies, and to stimulate certain pleasure points. A common way is sitting upright facing each other, legs around the other, private parts joined, but no pumping... gazing into eyes, gently caressing the body with light fingertips to awaken the body's energy, listen to the soft new age type music, no singing, only sounds, take in the sweet scent of incense, let the candles flicker in the night,then after you're relaxed, rub your hands together until warm to stimulate energy, then place a hand on each the heart and pelvic chakra's, breathe in the nose slowly, hold, then release slowly out the mouth, repeat many times, imagine seeing energy flow out your hands, through the other body and back again, when you feel it flowing, you'll get warm and tingly, and energetic, hairs may stand, then imagine the energy extending to pleasure areas... once flowing, keep thinking of the flow and begin to caress again and begin love making. Use positions that face each other, be passionate, sensual... gradually build the excitement, the intensity, until you're ready to explode, then let out your animal self... and hope the neighbors aren't home, it may get loud...then bring yourselves back to a cuddle, either upright or laying down, but embraced...continue the energy flow to keep the pleasure areas stimulated and by all means...caress. Again with practice, you'll laugh when people brag about giving two or three or six orgasms, and you'll smile in response. Peace Everyone, Spirit Wynd
Spirit Wynd..interesting that you should post this..I've recently become involved with a man and have always wanted to try this. My past lover of 8 1/2 yrs was not into trying this (pity that he wasn't)..But this guy is much more sensual and into lots of foreplay..horray for me : ) Kama Sutra books are already on his bookshelf..So this might be a good time to try..Hmmm..gotta pull out the erotic massage books..can't wait to experiment..
Happy to hear you have an open minded companion, that's always a good thing... as for the Kama Sutra, I've seen several books written about it and most of them are tough reads, so I recommend getting "Kama Sutra for Dummies". It's easy to read, it sections the text with bubble quotes, ideas, and illustrations, instead of all words in a too long book that gets boring and tiresome. Another book is "Secret Sexual Positions" I forgot the authors name, but it covers love making from other cultures and ancient ways, and some history for each. It's like 8x10 softcover if that helps. Though I have no problem in this area, but many guys do that need to read, "1001 Ways to be Romantic". It has many good ideas to learn or enhance the little things to show your partner how you feel... and no, a six pack, chips, and a movie to encourage cuddle time doesn't count. Be creative, sensual... have a bath ready with rose petals in the water for when she gets off work, create a candle lit dinner with her favorite food and drink, always use candles, soft music, incense or oil diffusers, flowers for her is a must, and prepare ahead, if have kids, make arrangements to go to babysitter or parents for the night. Being kinky is very fun, oh the many uses of a lollipop, ice, and a feather. A good one is get a plastic sheet and cover the bed, drip edible massage oil all over it, cherry or peach flavor is my favorite, roll around and have fun licking, caressing, sliding....you get the point. Role playing can also enhance foreplay, such as going to the supermarket and split up, pretend you don't know each other... this happened to me once, I saw her at the end of an aisle, some old guy holding a jar of tomato sauce was checking her out. I said to him, "wow, she's cute" he replies, hell yeah. I told him, I'm going to talk to her, then said, nah, I going to walk right up and kiss her... He's like no way, you don't have the guts!!! So I did, and while kissing, we heard a loud crash... we looked up and saw that he dropped the tomato sauce jar and it exploded all over the floor. We all laughed and walked away smiling. When we got home, the laughter relaxed and excited us faster, and worked us into a frenzy for some hot sex lasting most of the night. Problem with that, we had to go to work with only an hour sleep... but well worth it. Enjoy all, Spirit Wynd
Kama Sutra for Dummies...I'll have to find it..Somewhere in my boxes of stuff I have an illustrated Kama Sutra book..found it and the erotic massage book at a flea market several yrs ago..Only paid about 1.00 for each book..Guess they had no idea what they were..Guess I need to start digging..I have the "1001 Ways To Be more Romantic" book..it is wonderful...ALL men should read it.They will definitely get a clue as to what makes our toes curl..lol..Oh, and "Women are from Venus/Men are from Mars" ..awesome insight into the opposite sex...
I agree about the Mars/Venus book... it should be a manditory thing for people to read, like an SAT test, or a final exam before getting out of school, or before getting married. I'm sure it would lessen relationship problems, arguing, misunderstandings, and such... for the most part anyway, some people just don't get it!!! The main cause of downfall I see in people is PRIDE and EGO, if they can simmer it down, and stop thinking they know everything--they may actually learn something. Luck on the box search... Spirit Wynd