gf dosent like oral

ok so here it is my gf doesnt like receiving oral and not becouse i suck at it or any thing she just dosent get off on it she always says shes nervous when i do it so does she just not enjoy it ( is that even possible) or is it because she is just to nervous?

 

she is too nervous.

 

she is too nervous I agree... most women are not comfortable with their bodies it seems... it is not that we do not enjoy it or that we do not get off on it cuz most of us do... just some extra stimulation is good... I like a small vibrator and like to be played with that and then well the guy can almost do anything down there that he wants too.... being asked can I go down there is well a turnoff... just play with her and then do it...

 

Dude... Go down, then fake a gag and run out of the room. Never call her again.

Or... you could just let it go for a while and wait for her to grow more comfortable with sexuality and her body by showing her loving respect.

Either way...

 

dump her. she isn't comfortable with herself which will translate into sucking at everything else

 

Thats not true, he could just catch her at a bad time, like before she gets to shower. I have a few things that make me uncomfortable about myself but I don't suck at everything else.

If my fiance catches me right before I have had a chance to shower right after I excersize I don't want to have his face down there.

I don't get off from it either. I still enjoy it though, but I have to be in the mood for it.

 

I've had this problem, some girls just think it's weird having your head down there(the head with a mouth), and they get nervous or just feel out of place.

 

its not just girls. Im a guy and i dont like receiving. She can play with it, I just dont want it in her mouth....maybe because i have no faith in people and im afraid she is going to bite down. What sucks is that almost every time I tell a new girlfriend that, they take it as a challenge until it turns into an arguement. On the bright side, your relationship doesnt revolve around oral sex....if it does your just SOL...

 

lol @ "the head with a mouth"

and lol @ the kid above me who doesn't like blowjobs.... ahhh

 

or she is lying
and you really do suck
(like 90% of most guys)

 

Chances are it is a little bit of both..nervousness and you suck..You're 20 yrs old..Most 20 yr old guys do not have a clue yet..In a few years you'll look back on it and say "WFT was I thinking??"

 

update i know i posted that about a month ago but i just got back from europe and got her to relax and she loved it not sure how i got her to relax enough tho but any way she is alright with it now thanks for the help to some and to the others that were assholes thank you and fuck you too