Do you apologize?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by DonGenaro, Jul 29, 2008.

  1. treehugger_92

    treehugger_92 Member

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    im one of those people who apologizes like ALL the time....
    whether its something little like not paying attention and bumping into someone on accident, or if its doing huge that someone may never be able to forget... apologizing is always the way to go.

    i think its best to keep the peace, even if the person doesnt accept your apology right away ... i mean, hey, atleast you tryed right?
     
  2. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    I hate it when I start giving explanations or making promisses.

    Apologizing is enough. And the less I do it, the more genuine I am in my apology.
     
  3. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Yes, I always apologize. Too much actually. I apologize for things I didn't even do, things that were in no way my fault, you name it! *laughs* I think "I'm sorry" is one of my favorite phrases! ;)
     
  4. deleted

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    yeah to much sometimes, even for shit I did long ago.. oh well..
     
  5. Jimmy P

    Jimmy P bastion of awesomeness

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    if I feel my behavior warrants an apology, I will offer one. however, I take care not to apologize for no reason - if you apologize too easily, you might reach a point where you essentially apologize for being who you are.

    I'm inclined to agree with praxis in that the less I apologize, the more sincere I am when I do.
     
  6. vasik

    vasik Member

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    Yes i do if im wrong, everybody should. That way we could have a better world. Be nice to each other.
     
  7. Autentique

    Autentique wonderfabulastic

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  8. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i work with someone who apologizes for everything even if he did nothing wrong. makes me want to stab him
     
  9. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    And if you did, he'd probably apologize for annoying you so much.
     
  10. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    sadly it's probably true... i've told him to stop apologizing so much and he apologized for that..
     
  11. Traceroni.

    Traceroni. Senior Member

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    It depends on the situation, but generally yes. Unless it's something like making out with someones ex, than obviously I'm not gonna lie and say I'm sorry or I wouldn't have done it. I may say I'm sorry for hurting their feelings though, unless I'm not lol

    so pretty much, I'll admit I'm wrong if I'm wrong, but not apologize unless I mean it
     
  12. lode

    lode Banned

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    I say 'I'm sorry' out of empathy more than I actually apologize for things. I apologized for something I did last week, and since then, I don't really remember. Can't be that long since I've fucked up. :biggrin:

    Usually I'm pretty mindful of people I care for, so I try not to blatantly hurt their feelings. If I do I'll try to apologize.

    What I don't do is admit I'm wrong very much.
     
  13. Jaitaiyai

    Jaitaiyai Cianpo di tutti capi

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    Depends on how much i meant it, and how much it hurt them.. I don't think anything ive ever said has really hurt anyone.
     
  14. lode

    lode Banned

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    *breaks into tears*

    It is a good thing. Take that back. :biggrin:
     
  15. prissgib

    prissgib Member

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    I'm an appoligizer. It's important to admit when you're wrong.
     
  16. jimmyjoe1

    jimmyjoe1 toker Lifetime Supporter

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    yea im an appoligizer , if and when im wrong.
     
  17. Arlandis

    Arlandis Visitor

    Never.

    Apologising is a sign of weakness
     
  18. telephone

    telephone weird

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    If I feel sorry for something i've done, i'll apologize, but i usually won't apologize just because someone bitches about something i said or did even if it was totally justified.
    example: one of my friends is totally paranoid about anything and everything and she always gets mad and defensive when I tell her that nothing is wrong and she's just being paranoid. I stick to the fact that i know she's way too paranoid, and i'm not going to apologize for calling her paranoid even though she yells at me for doing so.
     
  19. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    you'll apologize when they finally get her...
     
  20. telephone

    telephone weird

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    yeah yeah yeah. I love how she always realizes that i'm right eventually and she's like "yeah, so <insert dramatic problem here> doesn't actually exist, i was just freaking out" and i'm like "that's what i said. you're just paranoid." and she's like "NO I'M NOT"

    i guess i just dont' know what paranoia is.

    sorry i turned this into a complain about paranoid friend thread. i'll stop now.
     

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