so ive been dating my gf for about three months now and everytime we hoook up we end up grinding on eachother and foreplay the hole nine yards i want to finger her or even have sex with her but she feels unsure about it and never lets me go the extra step is their something im doing wrong or something i should do
just give her some time & make sure she is comfortable, does she play with you or just grind on you??
Talk to her about it, openly and honestly. Don't be accusatory, or she'll just end up being defensive about it. Keep it lighthearted and friendly. How old are you two?
I was the same untill me and My ex were sure we were both really ready and Protection was our number one priority.. We were still in high school and not ready to have any kids.. we were still to young but maybe you just have to reasure her that everything will be okay...
