WOW really? Someone has waaaay tooo much time on their hands. This si the kind of thinking that messes ppl up and makes them feel guilty for nothing. I have no problem with your beliefs but you are a bit heavy on it. Kinda like the fundamenalist of any relgion or belief system. Oh well its your life.
hey knatty want to masturbate with me... were in the same state... well Im in a tree in pa.. than we can feel guilty together..
Li Jiong - I have never thought that masturbation in moderation is harmful, and it may be beneficial. The male body produces many millions of sperm in the testicles each day, and there are only three ways to eliminate it - a wet dream at night (which is messy and which most of us, in the U.S. at least, don't have after our early teenage years), intercourse, and masturbation. Where intercourse is not available, masturbation is the only real outlet, and it is a great reliever of stress, and eliminates the edgy feeling of what we call "blue balls" - the build up of too much sperm in the testicles. In China you also have an additional problem - with the "one child only" policy for Han Chinese over that past 30 years or so, and the preference for male children in China, there is a significant overpopulation of males over 18 years old who cannot find a female mate in China. These males have no sexual outlet, except for prostitutes (disease problem) or masturbation. Masturbation in moderation is a healthy outlet for unmarried Chinese males of marriage age. It also helps develop sexual understanding of your own body and how to control your orgasm, so when you do find a mate, you can be a better lover. As a lay sex therapist, I have advised a number of Chinese young men privately on how to become a good lover, and they have been very grateful for my help.
I don't really enjoy whacking off daily. But if i try to completely abstain from it, eventually it becomes a big distraction. If I lived longer due to not masturbating, I would be perpetuating an undesirable life because aren't there better things to do with your mind than trying to avoid masturbating. That's a lot of energy that could go better things. It's probably why guys are more creative after an orgasm; they got that out of the way and now they can really use their minds. The more I think about what the OP is saying the more ludicrous it sounds. It's already been posted, but bottom line is always moderation. I think too much masturbation can be unhealthy just like too much water is. The only thing you can really call evil is excess.
Yikes - Imagine if the people that spend all their time making up and proliferating mumbo jumbo like the original post would just direct their efforts at doing something useful? Perhaps the world would be a better place. Spreading ignorance takes a lot of work; there are far better things to do. Even doing nothing would be better than pushing dumb ideas like that crap.
That's stupid. Especially the stuff about memory. By the way, scientific studies have proven that masturbation actually decreases the chance of prostate cancer.
Back in 1994, I wrote an essay that was published in a weekly paper in a university town. http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?p=4592803#post4592803 It does not take the same stance as this misguided ancient Chinese philosophy but I did touch on that fact. Here is an excerpt. If masturbation as sin was foisted on us by the ancient church, it was an l8th century Swiss physician who perpetuated it into the age of enlightenment. In l758 S. A. Tissot wrote a scholarly treatise, "On Onanism, or a physical dissertation on the ills produced by masturbation." This was where the "degeneracy theory" invaded the western medical establishment. Tissot proposed that semen is a vital fluid and by wasting it men drained their bodies of vitality, becoming susceptible to diseases and infirmity. This theory was not new to other ancient cultures. The Chinese believed that semen was exhaustible, and would waste a man's "yang" energy. Women could masturbate freely because "yin" energy is inexhaustible. This observation is a natural conclusion to anyone familiar with the exhaustion experienced by most men after just one orgasm. BTW, Western Medicine only gave up its witch hunt mentality about masturbation well into the 20th Century. Those my age know of the misguided attitudes toward it that were common in the 1950s, well after Kinsey's research showed that 95% of men did admit to masturbating and 5% of men were liars.
hi dear li ong i totally agree with you bcoz i m suffering from all what you said. 3 4 years ago i was such a good student but today i cannot even remember what i had done last day.my memory is totally gone. al bacause of this shit masturbation which these west theories says are harmless. can u plzz plzz plzz tell me how i can come over all what i have lost. i want to regain my memory. my hair is falling. i want to regain my hair. i always feel tired and feel like i am everytime in sex mood.i have gone very thick and really upset now.can u plzz advise me somthing plz.i have been doing excessive masturbation since last 10 12 years and now i have a problem that semen drops with big urine or whenever i apply force anywhre or even i see any sex temting actions like sexy girl or stuff like that. can u plzzz plzzz advise me something or how i can contact you. i see your website. cannot understand at all. xxx
OK, I am not a doctor, but I have a cure for your problems due to excessive masturbation. It is a homeopathic treatment to regain that which your body lost. Eat Semen! Yes, it is as simple as that. Suck off as many guys as you can and be sure to swallow. I have found it rejuvenates me immensely (after a transient exhaustion that follows each treatment) Now this treatment regimen does require the assistance of other men, but I have been fortunate to find any number of men willing to provide me the necessary elixer. Please get back to us after a few weeks treatment and let us know how it went.
I realize that. In fact it could cause more masturbation if the other guy doesn't suck you off as well. I was just giving a suggestion to replenish the wasted fluid that the OP said caused him physical debilitation after maturbating too much.
I don't think its gross. Masturbation hurts no one at all. Sure semen gets wasted, but most of it will during sex. Plus at a certain age don't all men become infertile anyways? Its inevitable you can't keep the little guys/girls forever. Just my take.
Actually, I don't think men ever become infertile, I think they always have swimmers but maybe the swimmers aren't as strong.