i move on. i have no control of changing what happened. i can learn from it, but other than that, i just move on to bigger and better things
It's just not easy to forgive yourself when you make the same mistakes over and over again and you can't tell why...
learn to see those things as a path to where you are right now. i have a huge regret, not being with my husband earlier...but I realized I had dated lots of jerks so I can truley appreciate him and that has helped.
regret is pointless, so if it pops I up I remind myself that I've made my choices. then I work through the consequences as best I can.