So I'm seeing this girl right now and I'm pretty sure I'm in love with her. I say pretty sure because I've never been in love before. I've never told another girl that I loved her. Is this something the guy should say first or does it matter? Somedays I get the feeling that she wants me to tell her that, but I chicken out and say something stupid like I really like you... I want to tell her that I do, we've only been going out for about two weeks now. How long did the rest of you guys wait to tell them that you loved them?
I wouldnt say I love after just 2 weeks but yes when the time is right she wants you to say it first girls worry about the same stuff as you IE does he like me, so you should just go for it. if she dosnt say anything back at least you tried
Ah so true eh! Thanks for advise guys. I'm going to take the plunge and tell her, I'm just going to wait for the "perfect" setting to do so.
I think my girlfriend said it first. When she did, it was so awesome and filled me with such glee, I got a raging hard on. Just say it! The result may be the best thing to ever happen in your life.
Oh, wait, Two weeks?? Nevermind. Scratch that. Dont say anything. That will run her right the fuck off. My bad for not reading to the end of your post.
Well...my fiance told me after 3 days. And it DID freak me out a little. But since we share the same soul and all I didn't freak out too badly...I told him we should wait a while before we said it. lol, and then he said it again an hour later, it just slipped out, so the next day we were both saying it. I fell for him instantly, which is why I didn't run. Any other guy and I would've bolted. Don't say it until you're really really sure. "Pretty sure" just doesn't cut it. When you're totally absolutely, 100% without a doubt in love with her, then you can say it. P.S., it doesn't hurt to wait for the right moment either. We were mid cuddle when he said it to me for the first time...it was very tender and sweet.
Hmmm ok then, yeah I know what you mean knotdirty about being 100% for sure. I'm definetly going to do that...
DONT SAY IT THIS EARLY! Me and my last girl moved really quick. it lasted 5 years but was only excitin for 1 0r 2. After that we was just together coz we 'loved' each other. She started cheatin etc. So be SURE. Those 1st couple of months you will be obsessed and horny as fuck with each other, but thats the great part of being in a relationship. Dont fuck it up mate. Play it cool for a bit man. youre in lust.
Two weeks is probably too soon. Don't tell her something like that unless you feel reasonably confident she will enjoy hearing it. Meanwhile, compliment her. Tell her how beautiful she is, and stuff like that.
