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Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by ImConfuzzled, Aug 1, 2008.

  1. ImConfuzzled

    ImConfuzzled Guest

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    Hi im new and i live in scotland. Im 13 and im 100% sure im gay but im scared to come out about it. I have quite alot of freinds at school but no close freinds so i cant confinde in them and my big bro is popular so i fell like the whole school would no and make fun of me. Im scared to tell my parents because of the way they would react.
    I think some people know because if we are like out in Glasgow or something they will like go into a shop and go "she's fit, or i would do her" and i come away with comments like "look at whatt he's wearing" or just comments about men. Im realllly comfuzed about what to do?
    Help plz
     
  2. Colimon

    Colimon Cheesus Christo

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    It depends... What are the other kids like at school? You should start off by telling the people you trust most with it. You will feel a lot better if it works out, just make sure it will probably work out before you do say anything though. If people don't accept you for who you are, then they're not worth knowing anyways. I relized that i had these feelings around 11 or 12, and I didn't really come out until I was 16. Only some of my best friends, and lovers knew. When I finally did come out, it was such a relief, like I had no problems at all, especially with the girls. I'm pretty sure you'll be adored by many girls if you came out, and that will make a whole new friendship circle for you. I hope it works out okay, tell me what you've decided and how that's working out. If you need to talk, add me at sexymonsexymon@hotmail.com

    -Colin
     
  3. Electric boy

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    Colimon's right - it is probley better not to tell people yet if you think that it could turn nasty. I think wait until your older and are completely sure then if you have a better relationship with people at school then come out, or leave it until you leave and are more confident. Also at this time you could go to worck or uni and leave home.
     

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