Ok so I'm a girl rosy cheeks and they kinda rule my life! I need some help please?

I know that this may seem silly to others, but, I really need to get some advice on this situation! Thanks if you read this and if comment back to me! Greatly appreciate your time!

Well I'm a 20 year old girl and I am pretty as people tell me I am, but, I have this one problem! I know it is irrational, but, I hate my rosy cheeks! They are always kinda pink, when I walk they get hot and when I'm in work they get rosy too as I sometimes get embarassed when I talk to people for now real reason! Also when I'm in college I can feel uncomfortable and I know that my face will get rosy then!

It was never a problem until like 2 years ago when someone pointed out that I had rosy cheeks and asked me why was I embarassed?! I know that this is irrational, but, now I'm always thinking do my cheeks look really red and are people looking at them?! Its crap aswell, because when I see someone that I like I always blush and can't really hide my feelings! My chest also gets sort of rosy too, so I don't like to wear low tops that expose it!

I know I am very silly and this is such a stupid problem, but, I have become fixated on it and don't know what to do! It kind of made me depressed there for a good while, but, I have thankfully come out of that!

I don't like make-up so I wouldn't wear that to cover them up anyway!
I just want to know if anyone had any suggestions about how I can stop thinking about my rosy cheeks and not let this one factor rule my life.... as I'm often afraid of doing things because my face will get red and people will judge me. I wish that I could just have a plain pale face, that doesn't have all the colour!

Does anyone actually like rosy cheeks, do you think they are attractive or what can I do?
Any help would be so very much appreciated!

Thanks so much!
hiphappy

(Ps: I know, I'm mad for this, but, thanks! Its taken a while to get up the courage to unleash this crazy thing of mine.)

Peace xo

 

i say just don't worry about it. if people are looking at you then i am sure they are just think "wow shes pretty" so don't worry about it.

 

Ah thanks, that helps I know, I should just not worry about it, but, I just get caught up with it sometimes! I know that there are much bigger problems in the world and I should be grateful that this is my greatest concern at the moment!

 

I was fairly friendly with a girl who had the rosiest cheeks I've ever seen on anybody.

And she was adorable.
She didn't like them either, but I couldn't understand why. They're really cute.
And if yours get rosier when you're uncomfortable or embarrassed, it's even cuter. The fact that you can be so human and be embarrassed is incredibly endearing.

Don't worry about it.
It's a beautiful thing. Embrace it.

 

From what I've heard guys like girls who easily gets embarrassed, and you with your rosy cheeks seems as that kind of a person, so you have nothing to worry about!..
You gotta love anything that makes you different than the others!...

 

it is attractive ~haha~
it is better that u post your pic to us~~

i really interest in your pretty and rosy face~

 

I'm the exact same way and when people point it out its even worse because they make it sound like you look hideous or like a freak. My mom said it used to happen to her and that people really like it and you'll start to grow out of it at about 30. (I'm not sure if thats a good thing or a bad thing) Good luck and I know exactly how you feel. and thanks for posting this I want to see what others have to say too.

 

Its just your way of showing how peaceful and loving you are with out saying a word.

 

I had the same thing, but I've grown out of it and I'm sure you will too. All of my guy friends liked it though, said it made me look innocent

 

i have rosy cheeks, too. if i get embarrassed, my cheeks get red and then redder for getting embarrassed enough to have rosy cheeks! lol! also if i drink a beer or a glass of wine my cheeks get soo red but it's cute. i've never met anyone who said anything negative about it, people usually point it out playfully and smile. it's not a bad thing

 

I'm a guy and I have the same problem, I always thought it was because I was Irish (I notice only other Irish people have the issue because of all the pale skin?). I used to hate it (and to this day I blush easily) but as long as I stay calm and mellow I'm good.

My chest gets rosy too when I'm embarrassed or I've been exerting myself.

On a girl it can't be that bad....girls put on blush so they look sexually aroused, you just look like you've got natural blush on so its gotta look cute .

 

can we see pics?

 

sweetie, a girl that blushes is sexy as all hell.

 

I think it's adorable. :]

 

Thank you!

This definatley is making me feel a whole lot better... 100% better actually! I really appreciate all the lovely comments.

I think I needed to write this here as I've started thinking why am I so annoyed by my cheeks????..... when everyone else seems to think its not a big deal and even cute! That its a good thing as it shows that your honest and peaceful as fireantD1984 said!

You know the way everyone makes things a bigger deal in their own head anyway!
I've stopped thinking about them as much anyway and just accepting that they are a part of me and who I am.

I just didn't like how they made me feel vunerable as there is no way of hiding your emotions! But sure at least people see that!
I also get rosier cheeks when I drink sometimes too azucena!

A sincere thank you to everyone though, this really helped me and I'm sure there were other people out there too wondering about the same thing! The sily things in life that have such importance to you, but, others probabaly never even notice!

Thanks for the words of kindness anyway and sparing a thought to help me out!
hippyhappy

 

well, it's like me. I'm very much like a chia pet, and I hated 'the hagrid look' for years, and fought it, tried to shave and strip the fur off...no dice. I'm just going to have to live with it, but apparently some of the more enlightened girls think that it's cute.