So I have a question just for my own knowledge. My girlfriend and I recently brought a strap on into our sex life. I thought it would do nothing for me, while wearing it, in terms of an orgasm. But when I used it I climaxed after about 15 minutes. Just about everytime I use it I have one. The thing is it's barely ever rubbing on my clit or anything. Maybe it's the motion but i'm not sure. So to get to the question what is exactly making me climax? My girlfriend has yet to encounter this feeling. Am I just lucky lol? But does anyone know what is making me orgasm from it?
I think it is a preference thing. I, also, often orgasm from wearing a strap on. I, personally, think it is part the motion and part just the thrill of making my girlfriend cum. For some people it can be an extension of self, even though it is technically just made of some silicone. Some of us are lucky enough to get off on making others cum. It doesnt happen every time, but it definitely gets me hot.
I think it's a power thing. Like giving head. Getting off because they are. I quite like it both ways. I love the power it gives you, it's very dominant as well so if your partner likes that then, well in. x